Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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help, attracting older and higher salaried women

newbeginning

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I haven't posted here in a very long while since I've been committed with one person for more than 2 years. For a while now things are not going well and I am starting to look around and realize that there are other great opportunities out there.

Situation: I again started talking to an older female friend who has pretty much everything i want in a mate. In fact, i could mary her today and not regret it. Problem is she is in the medical profession and im in engineering. Needless to say, she makes more than twice as much as I do. Might not be significant to some of you but it is important in my culture to be atleast successful as your mate.

Question: What can I do to attract such a successful and older woman? I think at this age, women are more straight to the point than enjoy playing games.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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MacAvoy

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The exact same way you attract any women. Attraction is attraction. The only advice I've got is to not act like she's more powerful cuz of her money. Treat her just like any other women.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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newbeginning said:
...Problem is she is in the medical profession and im in engineering. Needless to say, she makes more than twice as much as I do. Might not be significant to some of you but it is important in my culture to be atleast successful as your mate....
Decide what'll make you happier; staying true to your culture or your happiness. It shouldn't be a hard decision.
 

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newbeginning said:
I haven't posted here in a very long while since I've been committed with one person for more than 2 years. For a while now things are not going well and I am starting to look around and realize that there are other great opportunities out there.

Situation: I again started talking to an older female friend who has pretty much everything i want in a mate. In fact, i could mary her today and not regret it. Problem is she is in the medical profession and im in engineering. Needless to say, she makes more than twice as much as I do. Might not be significant to some of you but it is important in my culture to be atleast successful as your mate.

Question: What can I do to attract such a successful and older woman? I think at this age, women are more straight to the point than enjoy playing games.
Don't be so negative...if you are a GREAT engineer...then you are smarter than she is. Certaintly, more analytical. You will be surprised how impresed some of the doctors I know about the fact that I am an engineer.

And if you allow society and culture dictate how you going to get involved with a woman...then maybe you should focus on YOUNGER women.
 

thedeparted

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Offer to lick her puzzy. Older women like that. Straight to the point. Then maybe she'll take you out for dinner and dancing... don't forget your heels.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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