"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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help, asking a complete stranger out, afraid she will freak

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im tired of the lonely nights and ready to make my move.

chick that goes to my college, an average looking chick, but for some reason she glows and i hear angels singing when i see her. she knows who i am. she seen me before. i do not know her name, she doesn't know mine. i've had 2 big lecture classes with her before. she has caught me looking at her, i have caught her looking at me, but we are both too shy to do anything about it. she is very quiet and also from another country, i think portugal or brazil.

my plan:

"Can I ask you a question?"
her - um sure
"Are you seeing anyone at the moment?"
her- she could say yes or no
"I was just wondering if you would like to go out sometime. i find myself attracted to you."


what do you guys think? will that freak her out? anyone have success with this. note: she is not in any of my classes this semester. thanks.
 

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Tyrone Biggums

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First, get that glow and angels sh!t out of your head. It will only mess you up. Make an approach like you would to anyone else. Talk about what was discussed in class. Then ask for her number and watch how she reacts. Don't ask if she has a boyfriend or if she is seeing anyone. Don't ASK if you can take her out, offer to take her out. Say something like: "I want to buy you a coffee at Sturbucks on Wednesday at 7:00. Can you make it?" Be confident.
 

blinkwatt

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Try this next time she walks by you-(keep your back straight,EYE CONTACT,look sharp and clean)
you;"Hey excuse me,I have to talk to you."
hb;(lost & confused)"Yeah whats up?"
you;"I have seen you around and you caught my eyes. So I thought I would meet you."(extend hand)

From there just talk about your classes,how long has she been there,does she like the school,IMPORTANT;find out then and there if she has a boyfriend,she will know what's going on when you ask.
 
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