"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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help, asking a complete stranger out, afraid she will freak

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im tired of the lonely nights and ready to make my move.

chick that goes to my college, an average looking chick, but for some reason she glows and i hear angels singing when i see her. she knows who i am. she seen me before. i do not know her name, she doesn't know mine. i've had 2 big lecture classes with her before. she has caught me looking at her, i have caught her looking at me, but we are both too shy to do anything about it. she is very quiet and also from another country, i think portugal or brazil.

my plan:

"Can I ask you a question?"
her - um sure
"Are you seeing anyone at the moment?"
her- she could say yes or no
"I was just wondering if you would like to go out sometime. i find myself attracted to you."


what do you guys think? will that freak her out? anyone have success with this. note: she is not in any of my classes this semester. thanks.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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First, get that glow and angels sh!t out of your head. It will only mess you up. Make an approach like you would to anyone else. Talk about what was discussed in class. Then ask for her number and watch how she reacts. Don't ask if she has a boyfriend or if she is seeing anyone. Don't ASK if you can take her out, offer to take her out. Say something like: "I want to buy you a coffee at Sturbucks on Wednesday at 7:00. Can you make it?" Be confident.
 
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Try this next time she walks by you-(keep your back straight,EYE CONTACT,look sharp and clean)
you;"Hey excuse me,I have to talk to you."
hb;(lost & confused)"Yeah whats up?"
you;"I have seen you around and you caught my eyes. So I thought I would meet you."(extend hand)

From there just talk about your classes,how long has she been there,does she like the school,IMPORTANT;find out then and there if she has a boyfriend,she will know what's going on when you ask.
 
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