"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

Read more...

help, asking a complete stranger out, afraid she will freak

Z

zip

Don Juan
Joined
Feb 5, 2006
Messages
47
Reaction score
0
im tired of the lonely nights and ready to make my move.

chick that goes to my college, an average looking chick, but for some reason she glows and i hear angels singing when i see her. she knows who i am. she seen me before. i do not know her name, she doesn't know mine. i've had 2 big lecture classes with her before. she has caught me looking at her, i have caught her looking at me, but we are both too shy to do anything about it. she is very quiet and also from another country, i think portugal or brazil.

my plan:

"Can I ask you a question?"
her - um sure
"Are you seeing anyone at the moment?"
her- she could say yes or no
"I was just wondering if you would like to go out sometime. i find myself attracted to you."


what do you guys think? will that freak her out? anyone have success with this. note: she is not in any of my classes this semester. thanks.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

T

Tyrone Biggums

Don Juan
Joined
Dec 23, 2004
Messages
59
Reaction score
0
Age
50
First, get that glow and angels sh!t out of your head. It will only mess you up. Make an approach like you would to anyone else. Talk about what was discussed in class. Then ask for her number and watch how she reacts. Don't ask if she has a boyfriend or if she is seeing anyone. Don't ASK if you can take her out, offer to take her out. Say something like: "I want to buy you a coffee at Sturbucks on Wednesday at 7:00. Can you make it?" Be confident.
 
B

blinkwatt

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 6, 2005
Messages
1,904
Reaction score
7
Age
39
Try this next time she walks by you-(keep your back straight,EYE CONTACT,look sharp and clean)
you;"Hey excuse me,I have to talk to you."
hb;(lost & confused)"Yeah whats up?"
you;"I have seen you around and you caught my eyes. So I thought I would meet you."(extend hand)

From there just talk about your classes,how long has she been there,does she like the school,IMPORTANT;find out then and there if she has a boyfriend,she will know what's going on when you ask.
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top