Tommorow i am planning to meet atleast 5 girls in school. I know first you have to make eye contact and then smile and if you get a smile back, you go approach. How do I start a conversation after saying that and saying hi?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Microphone Fiend
Master Don Juan
Hi and welcome to the site. You don't have to wait for eye contact to approach but it helps. Just ask how was your weekend or what are you gonna do for this one? You're prolly too young but one that is nice is "I saw you over there and you seemed interesting so I wanted to say hi..."
I reccomend reading some of the articles on conversing in the DJ bible, that oughta give you a lil more background...
Anyways have fun at the site which will no doubt change your life
I reccomend reading some of the articles on conversing in the DJ bible, that oughta give you a lil more background...
Anyways have fun at the site which will no doubt change your life
Microphone Fiend
Master Don Juan
lol, attaboy Vicky, see that wasn't so hard now was it? (Kinda saccarine but good for now 
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Microphone Fiend
Master Don Juan
I dunno, it's kinda cool? Do u find it condescending or something?
Microphone Fiend
Master Don Juan
I guess it started when you called my spanky in the other post, i coudln't think of anything funny to call you (well @ least nothing others would find funny) so vicky it was