Tommorow i am planning to meet atleast 5 girls in school. I know first you have to make eye contact and then smile and if you get a smile back, you go approach. How do I start a conversation after saying that and saying hi?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Microphone Fiend
Master Don Juan
Hi and welcome to the site. You don't have to wait for eye contact to approach but it helps. Just ask how was your weekend or what are you gonna do for this one? You're prolly too young but one that is nice is "I saw you over there and you seemed interesting so I wanted to say hi..."
I reccomend reading some of the articles on conversing in the DJ bible, that oughta give you a lil more background...
Anyways have fun at the site which will no doubt change your life
I reccomend reading some of the articles on conversing in the DJ bible, that oughta give you a lil more background...
Anyways have fun at the site which will no doubt change your life
Microphone Fiend
Master Don Juan
lol, attaboy Vicky, see that wasn't so hard now was it? (Kinda saccarine but good for now 
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Microphone Fiend
Master Don Juan
I dunno, it's kinda cool? Do u find it condescending or something?
Microphone Fiend
Master Don Juan
I guess it started when you called my spanky in the other post, i coudln't think of anything funny to call you (well @ least nothing others would find funny) so vicky it was