Tommorow i am planning to meet atleast 5 girls in school. I know first you have to make eye contact and then smile and if you get a smile back, you go approach. How do I start a conversation after saying that and saying hi?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Microphone Fiend
Master Don Juan
Hi and welcome to the site. You don't have to wait for eye contact to approach but it helps. Just ask how was your weekend or what are you gonna do for this one? You're prolly too young but one that is nice is "I saw you over there and you seemed interesting so I wanted to say hi..."
I reccomend reading some of the articles on conversing in the DJ bible, that oughta give you a lil more background...
Anyways have fun at the site which will no doubt change your life
I reccomend reading some of the articles on conversing in the DJ bible, that oughta give you a lil more background...
Anyways have fun at the site which will no doubt change your life
Microphone Fiend
Master Don Juan
lol, attaboy Vicky, see that wasn't so hard now was it? (Kinda saccarine but good for now 
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Microphone Fiend
Master Don Juan
I dunno, it's kinda cool? Do u find it condescending or something?
Microphone Fiend
Master Don Juan
I guess it started when you called my spanky in the other post, i coudln't think of anything funny to call you (well @ least nothing others would find funny) so vicky it was