Tommorow i am planning to meet atleast 5 girls in school. I know first you have to make eye contact and then smile and if you get a smile back, you go approach. How do I start a conversation after saying that and saying hi?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Microphone Fiend
Master Don Juan
Hi and welcome to the site. You don't have to wait for eye contact to approach but it helps. Just ask how was your weekend or what are you gonna do for this one? You're prolly too young but one that is nice is "I saw you over there and you seemed interesting so I wanted to say hi..."
I reccomend reading some of the articles on conversing in the DJ bible, that oughta give you a lil more background...
Anyways have fun at the site which will no doubt change your life
I reccomend reading some of the articles on conversing in the DJ bible, that oughta give you a lil more background...
Anyways have fun at the site which will no doubt change your life
Microphone Fiend
Master Don Juan
lol, attaboy Vicky, see that wasn't so hard now was it? (Kinda saccarine but good for now 
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Microphone Fiend
Master Don Juan
I dunno, it's kinda cool? Do u find it condescending or something?
Microphone Fiend
Master Don Juan
I guess it started when you called my spanky in the other post, i coudln't think of anything funny to call you (well @ least nothing others would find funny) so vicky it was