"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Stinkum

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Whats up guys, Im new here. I read that new posts get deleted and such but I just wanted to introduce myself. Im 21, and am a really f*cking frustrated chump who desires one thing in life, and that is the ability to seduce women either for one night stands, couple night stands, and eventually relationships. One a scale of 1-10, im pretty low on the scale in my ability with women. I dont think im that bad looking of a guy, it believe its more of a mental thing. I get really nervous and I have avoided women most of my life because I just get so damn nervous around them. Well thats my introduction, im sure ill post some stuff and hope to get some good advice. Thanks
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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MMA Juan

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Hi Stinkum, welcome to the discussion forum.

I think the main attribute you're gonna need on this site is patience. If you don't have that, then you're not gonna learn, and from reading your intro you're not gonna go anywhere.

Read the DJ Bible (Link on the bottom of every page) and take it from there. Read the archives, and DJ tip section. Once you get an idea on what is required, you can start improving youself as a person.

On behalf of other members on this board, good luck.
 

Dongfu

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Welcome from deep in the caves of vagina mountain. Study well, pad juan. Poof . . . dong fu vanishes in a cloud of smoke.
 

kdnash82

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5 years is a long time. Read the bible. Put it to use. I think if you apply the things you read, you could become an assistant pimp in a week. With that said, be careful about which advice you take and which people you take advice from. Just because their status says Master, doesn't really mean they know what they're talking about.

Welcome and good luck.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Well, I've been around this site for about 5 years. And I am finally starting to get laid on a regular basis from different girls. I'm nowhere near where I want to be, but alot better than I was 5 years ago.
 

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Welcome to the site. Just remember that this, like everything in life, is what you make of it. Don't sit here and ignore advice thinking people on here are stupid. Give everything you read a chance in real life and see what works for you and what doesn't.
 
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