Whats up guys, Im new here. I read that new posts get deleted and such but I just wanted to introduce myself. Im 21, and am a really f*cking frustrated chump who desires one thing in life, and that is the ability to seduce women either for one night stands, couple night stands, and eventually relationships. One a scale of 1-10, im pretty low on the scale in my ability with women. I dont think im that bad looking of a guy, it believe its more of a mental thing. I get really nervous and I have avoided women most of my life because I just get so damn nervous around them. Well thats my introduction, im sure ill post some stuff and hope to get some good advice. Thanks
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Hello, new person here
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
MMA Juan
Don Juan
Hi Stinkum, welcome to the discussion forum.
I think the main attribute you're gonna need on this site is patience. If you don't have that, then you're not gonna learn, and from reading your intro you're not gonna go anywhere.
Read the DJ Bible (Link on the bottom of every page) and take it from there. Read the archives, and DJ tip section. Once you get an idea on what is required, you can start improving youself as a person.
On behalf of other members on this board, good luck.
I think the main attribute you're gonna need on this site is patience. If you don't have that, then you're not gonna learn, and from reading your intro you're not gonna go anywhere.
Read the DJ Bible (Link on the bottom of every page) and take it from there. Read the archives, and DJ tip section. Once you get an idea on what is required, you can start improving youself as a person.
On behalf of other members on this board, good luck.
Dongfu
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Welcome from deep in the caves of vagina mountain. Study well, pad juan. Poof . . . dong fu vanishes in a cloud of smoke.
My Name is Nobody
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Read the site. In five years you'll be a pimp.
kdnash82
Master Don Juan
5 years is a long time. Read the bible. Put it to use. I think if you apply the things you read, you could become an assistant pimp in a week. With that said, be careful about which advice you take and which people you take advice from. Just because their status says Master, doesn't really mean they know what they're talking about.
Welcome and good luck.
Welcome and good luck.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
My Name is Nobody
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Well, I've been around this site for about 5 years. And I am finally starting to get laid on a regular basis from different girls. I'm nowhere near where I want to be, but alot better than I was 5 years ago.
TheMaestro87
Don Juan
Welcome to the site. Just remember that this, like everything in life, is what you make of it. Don't sit here and ignore advice thinking people on here are stupid. Give everything you read a chance in real life and see what works for you and what doesn't.