Whats up guys, Im new here. I read that new posts get deleted and such but I just wanted to introduce myself. Im 21, and am a really f*cking frustrated chump who desires one thing in life, and that is the ability to seduce women either for one night stands, couple night stands, and eventually relationships. One a scale of 1-10, im pretty low on the scale in my ability with women. I dont think im that bad looking of a guy, it believe its more of a mental thing. I get really nervous and I have avoided women most of my life because I just get so damn nervous around them. Well thats my introduction, im sure ill post some stuff and hope to get some good advice. Thanks
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
MMA Juan
Don Juan
Hi Stinkum, welcome to the discussion forum.
I think the main attribute you're gonna need on this site is patience. If you don't have that, then you're not gonna learn, and from reading your intro you're not gonna go anywhere.
Read the DJ Bible (Link on the bottom of every page) and take it from there. Read the archives, and DJ tip section. Once you get an idea on what is required, you can start improving youself as a person.
On behalf of other members on this board, good luck.
I think the main attribute you're gonna need on this site is patience. If you don't have that, then you're not gonna learn, and from reading your intro you're not gonna go anywhere.
Read the DJ Bible (Link on the bottom of every page) and take it from there. Read the archives, and DJ tip section. Once you get an idea on what is required, you can start improving youself as a person.
On behalf of other members on this board, good luck.
Dongfu
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Welcome from deep in the caves of vagina mountain. Study well, pad juan. Poof . . . dong fu vanishes in a cloud of smoke.
My Name is Nobody
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Read the site. In five years you'll be a pimp.
kdnash82
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5 years is a long time. Read the bible. Put it to use. I think if you apply the things you read, you could become an assistant pimp in a week. With that said, be careful about which advice you take and which people you take advice from. Just because their status says Master, doesn't really mean they know what they're talking about.
Welcome and good luck.
Welcome and good luck.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
My Name is Nobody
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Well, I've been around this site for about 5 years. And I am finally starting to get laid on a regular basis from different girls. I'm nowhere near where I want to be, but alot better than I was 5 years ago.
TheMaestro87
Don Juan
Welcome to the site. Just remember that this, like everything in life, is what you make of it. Don't sit here and ignore advice thinking people on here are stupid. Give everything you read a chance in real life and see what works for you and what doesn't.