Whats up guys, Im new here. I read that new posts get deleted and such but I just wanted to introduce myself. Im 21, and am a really f*cking frustrated chump who desires one thing in life, and that is the ability to seduce women either for one night stands, couple night stands, and eventually relationships. One a scale of 1-10, im pretty low on the scale in my ability with women. I dont think im that bad looking of a guy, it believe its more of a mental thing. I get really nervous and I have avoided women most of my life because I just get so damn nervous around them. Well thats my introduction, im sure ill post some stuff and hope to get some good advice. Thanks
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Hello, new person here
- Thread starter Stinkum
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
MMA Juan
Don Juan
Hi Stinkum, welcome to the discussion forum.
I think the main attribute you're gonna need on this site is patience. If you don't have that, then you're not gonna learn, and from reading your intro you're not gonna go anywhere.
Read the DJ Bible (Link on the bottom of every page) and take it from there. Read the archives, and DJ tip section. Once you get an idea on what is required, you can start improving youself as a person.
On behalf of other members on this board, good luck.
I think the main attribute you're gonna need on this site is patience. If you don't have that, then you're not gonna learn, and from reading your intro you're not gonna go anywhere.
Read the DJ Bible (Link on the bottom of every page) and take it from there. Read the archives, and DJ tip section. Once you get an idea on what is required, you can start improving youself as a person.
On behalf of other members on this board, good luck.
Dongfu
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Welcome from deep in the caves of vagina mountain. Study well, pad juan. Poof . . . dong fu vanishes in a cloud of smoke.
My Name is Nobody
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Read the site. In five years you'll be a pimp.
kdnash82
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5 years is a long time. Read the bible. Put it to use. I think if you apply the things you read, you could become an assistant pimp in a week. With that said, be careful about which advice you take and which people you take advice from. Just because their status says Master, doesn't really mean they know what they're talking about.
Welcome and good luck.
Welcome and good luck.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
My Name is Nobody
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Well, I've been around this site for about 5 years. And I am finally starting to get laid on a regular basis from different girls. I'm nowhere near where I want to be, but alot better than I was 5 years ago.
TheMaestro87
Don Juan
Welcome to the site. Just remember that this, like everything in life, is what you make of it. Don't sit here and ignore advice thinking people on here are stupid. Give everything you read a chance in real life and see what works for you and what doesn't.