Purple-Haze
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TS, thanks a lot! I now get the alerts.TruthSeeker said:It's in the option menu
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
TS, thanks a lot! I now get the alerts.TruthSeeker said:It's in the option menu
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
SilverSonnet said:Hey, I'm the youngest fellow here, being 14Welcome, try not to cause as much hassle as the previous LS invaders did. And you'll be fine. I'm one of the guys that enjoys having some female perspective, as long as women try not to force that perspective onto me, I'm cool
So, welcome and hop you enjoy the reading.
Lil' Ben![]()
I read your post in one of Lishy's threads - nicely said, bro!SilverSonnet said:Hey, I'm the youngest fellow here, being 14Welcome, try not to cause as much hassle as the previous LS invaders did. And you'll be fine. I'm one of the guys that enjoys having some female perspective, as long as women try not to force that perspective onto me, I'm cool
So, welcome and hop you enjoy the reading.
Lil' Ben![]()
No problemo, sister!Purple-Haze said:TS, thanks a lot! I now get the alerts.
Well if I think a gift would help, I'd suggest it as a tip... But I am not going to bombard this place with pink fuzzy wuzzy talk and go on about my menstrual cycle. So you have not need to worry.Wolf said:Yer but like it's been said before, SS is kind of like a boys treehouse with a "NO GIRLS!" sign outside! Lol
I think if you start posting stuff like "Shower your woman with prezzies!!!" (not saying you would) in the Tips section or whatever then there will be all manner of chaos and POSSIBLY world war 3.
Same as if one of us went to LS and posted something like "BEAT YOUR GIRLFRIEND SENSELESS MWAHAHAHA" (not that anyone here feels that way towards women, I don't think).
Except I DO like to think that our mods aren't Nazis lol, although some would disagree.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Night HS!SilverSonnet said:The real gift thing is this..you give women a gift when she's been good/nice/ to you and has done something worthy of a reward. Most women see gift-giving as trying to buy their love. Dont fall for it
And yes, Purple. I will not force ANY of my views on you, as I DO respect women and their views, and it's nice to take a step back and see what other people think. But i will hold my own morals and values, and nothing will change that, so anyone gonna try, dont bother![]()
Well I'm a total night owl. I post to keep myself from dying of boredom.Wolf said:Also, you LoveShackers are really active lol! This is maybe the most active thread EVER created on SoSuave, 3 pages of posts in like a day or whenever this was started, is unheard of.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I'm not much different than many of the female friends I've made at LS. I hope you'll eventually venture over there again and read some of the stuff that people post about.SilverSonnet said:Well, FINALLY! A woman LS poster, who genuinely decent and isn't a total troll. From me, your MOST welcome here
And I'm open to change, just not people FORCING it on me.
I must be, huh?Burrito Supreme said:Still awake I see. You are crazy.:crazy:
Actually, I'm learning how to be an alpha. I'm sure this site will be instrumental in my education.Wolf said:heh that should be fun, a post of "my bf said he hates me what should I do," will get you many "NEXT!!!!!" calls in the post along with, "DON'T PUT HIM ON A PEDESTAL! BE THE ALPHA MALE... I MEAN WOMAN" etc etc.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You are indeed in a purple-haze.Purple-Haze said:I must be, huh?
I'm having fun reading some of the threads on here. I even watched a video on PUAs in the UK.
This has been a very eye-opening experience.
Hey, brother. Don't knock it till you try it.Burrito Supreme said:You indeed in a purple-haze.![]()
I've tried the red haze, the blue haze, and many more in my day. The hazes were fun while they lasted.Purple-Haze said:Hey, brother. Don't knock it till you try it.
Plus, I need all the ammo I can get...you know, for when I deal with "stuff."
The guys on here seem pretty decent thus far. I was a little scurred at first...thinking they'd knock me down a few. Hopefully I haven't spoken too soon.
And what are YOU doing up so late? Or early...? I dunno what I'm saying. Where is my midget person when I need him.
Alright, well come online to le talk place if you're going to be kicking around.Burrito Supreme said:I've tried the red haze, the blue haze, and many more in my day. The hazes were fun while they lasted.
I'm two hours ahead of you.
Its opening day today for baseball and yours truly has tickets. The game is an early game, so there is no time for sleep now.
More than likely I'll be kicking around later on.Purple-Haze said:Alright, well come online to le talk place if you're going to be kicking around.
Ciao!
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.