"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Hello, Hello

Purple-Haze

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Burrito Supreme said:
I am more then willing to assist you in satisfying your appetite.
I'm alright. But many thanks for the kind offer. What a welcome. Us newbies feel so loved. :)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Burrito Supreme said:
You wouldn't regret it, but thats cool.

I'm a newby as well.
Ha, so you are! I just noticed your post count. Tell me, are you a LShacker as well?
 

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Purple-Haze said:
Ha, so you are! I just noticed your post count. Tell me, are you a LShacker as well?
I will do deliveries to other message boards as well if needed.

Wouldn't you like to know?:moon:
 

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Burrito Supreme said:
I will do deliveries to other message boards as well if needed.

Wouldn't you like to know?:moon:
So you are. Hmm... Now you've got me all curious.

BTW: anyone know how to make it so that I can see (i.e. little check mark like at LS) when there is a response to a thread I posted in? Wow. Long sentence.

And BS...I think I may know who you are. Tehe.
 

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Well at least you girls can PM each other revealing your identities to one another.


Something else that the fascist LS wouldn't let newbies do!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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ThunderMaverick said:
Well at least you girls can PM each other revealing your identities to one another.


Something else that the fascist LS wouldn't let newbies do!
Yes, that means Supreme can PM me his identity!

Now someone, please, tell me how to subscribe to my threads. Mucho gracias.
 

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Purple-Haze said:
So you are. Hmm... Now you've got me all curious.

BTW: anyone know how to make it so that I can see (i.e. little check mark like at LS) when there is a response to a thread I posted in? Wow. Long sentence.

And BS...I think I may know who you are. Tehe.
You may feel free to PM me with your guesses. You get a very special prize if you guess correctly.

Its under the options menu somewhere.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Burrito Supreme said:
No guesses I take it?
K, I PM'ed you. Just based on your initial post about communication being the key to a successful R. I have not read any of your other posts.
 

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Purple-Haze said:
K, I PM'ed you. Just based on your initial post about communication being the key to a successful R. I have not read any of your other posts.
Nevermind my question............
 

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Wouldn't you like to know? ;)
Hey, I'm the youngest fellow here, being 14:D Welcome, try not to cause as much hassle as the previous LS invaders did. And you'll be fine. I'm one of the guys that enjoys having some female perspective, as long as women try not to force that perspective onto me, I'm cool:cool:
So, welcome and hop you enjoy the reading.

Lil' Ben ;)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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