"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I am more then willing to assist you in satisfying your appetite.
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I'm alright. But many thanks for the kind offer. What a welcome. Us newbies feel so loved. :)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Burrito Supreme said:
You wouldn't regret it, but thats cool.

I'm a newby as well.
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Ha, so you are! I just noticed your post count. Tell me, are you a LShacker as well?
 
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Ha, so you are! I just noticed your post count. Tell me, are you a LShacker as well?
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I will do deliveries to other message boards as well if needed.

Wouldn't you like to know?:moon:
 
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I will do deliveries to other message boards as well if needed.

Wouldn't you like to know?:moon:
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So you are. Hmm... Now you've got me all curious.

BTW: anyone know how to make it so that I can see (i.e. little check mark like at LS) when there is a response to a thread I posted in? Wow. Long sentence.

And BS...I think I may know who you are. Tehe.
 
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Well at least you girls can PM each other revealing your identities to one another.


Something else that the fascist LS wouldn't let newbies do!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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ThunderMaverick said:
Well at least you girls can PM each other revealing your identities to one another.


Something else that the fascist LS wouldn't let newbies do!
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Yes, that means Supreme can PM me his identity!

Now someone, please, tell me how to subscribe to my threads. Mucho gracias.
 
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So you are. Hmm... Now you've got me all curious.

BTW: anyone know how to make it so that I can see (i.e. little check mark like at LS) when there is a response to a thread I posted in? Wow. Long sentence.

And BS...I think I may know who you are. Tehe.
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You may feel free to PM me with your guesses. You get a very special prize if you guess correctly.

Its under the options menu somewhere.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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No guesses I take it?
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K, I PM'ed you. Just based on your initial post about communication being the key to a successful R. I have not read any of your other posts.
 
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Purple-Haze said:
K, I PM'ed you. Just based on your initial post about communication being the key to a successful R. I have not read any of your other posts.
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Nevermind my question............
 
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Hey, I'm the youngest fellow here, being 14:D Welcome, try not to cause as much hassle as the previous LS invaders did. And you'll be fine. I'm one of the guys that enjoys having some female perspective, as long as women try not to force that perspective onto me, I'm cool:cool:
So, welcome and hop you enjoy the reading.

Lil' Ben ;)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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