Purple-Haze
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I'm alright. But many thanks for the kind offer. What a welcome. Us newbies feel so loved.Burrito Supreme said:
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Hello, Hello
- Thread starter Purple-Haze
- Start date
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
TruthSeeker
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Burrito Supreme, do you do delivery?
Purple-Haze
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That's the last thing I need. Taco Bell delivery.TruthSeeker said:
Burrito Supreme
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Yes maam. I will be more than happy to accomodate to your hunger as well.TruthSeeker said:
Burrito Supreme
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You wouldn't regret it, but thats cool.Purple-Haze said:I'm alright. But many thanks for the kind offer. What a welcome. Us newbies feel so loved.
I'm a newby as well.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
ThunderMaverick
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O_O
*gets horny*
*gets horny*
Purple-Haze
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Ha, so you are! I just noticed your post count. Tell me, are you a LShacker as well?Burrito Supreme said:
Burrito Supreme
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I will do deliveries to other message boards as well if needed.Purple-Haze said:
Wouldn't you like to know?:moon:
Purple-Haze
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So you are. Hmm... Now you've got me all curious.Burrito Supreme said:
BTW: anyone know how to make it so that I can see (i.e. little check mark like at LS) when there is a response to a thread I posted in? Wow. Long sentence.
And BS...I think I may know who you are. Tehe.
ThunderMaverick
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Well at least you girls can PM each other revealing your identities to one another.
Something else that the fascist LS wouldn't let newbies do!
Something else that the fascist LS wouldn't let newbies do!
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Purple-Haze
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Yes, that means Supreme can PM me his identity!ThunderMaverick said:
Now someone, please, tell me how to subscribe to my threads. Mucho gracias.
Burrito Supreme
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You may feel free to PM me with your guesses. You get a very special prize if you guess correctly.Purple-Haze said:
Its under the options menu somewhere.
TruthSeeker
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It's in the option menu
Burrito Supreme
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Wolf said:
I tried my best to get that smack to you.
Purple-Haze
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This may explain my penchant for those things.Wolf said:
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Burrito Supreme
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No guesses I take it?
TruthSeeker
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I'll take a guess! PM you now...
Purple-Haze
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K, I PM'ed you. Just based on your initial post about communication being the key to a successful R. I have not read any of your other posts.Burrito Supreme said:
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Nevermind my question............Purple-Haze said:
SilverSonnet
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Hey, I'm the youngest fellow here, being 14 Welcome, try not to cause as much hassle as the previous LS invaders did. And you'll be fine. I'm one of the guys that enjoys having some female perspective, as long as women try not to force that perspective onto me, I'm cool
So, welcome and hop you enjoy the reading.
Lil' Ben
Welcome, try not to cause as much hassle as the previous LS invaders did. And you'll be fine. I'm one of the guys that enjoys having some female perspective, as long as women try not to force that perspective onto me, I'm coolSo, welcome and hop you enjoy the reading.
Lil' Ben
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.