"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Height and weight

Jamal

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I am 6 ft tall and weigh about 148 pounds...ive been working out in the gym and i use to weigh 153 pounds but the p90x program is making me loose the weight. I just want to know what is the recomended minimum weight i should be for my height so i can go from their to being ripped.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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WhitePimp

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I'm no expert but it sounds like you are a LONG LONG way from being anywhere near ripped. You've got to either eat a sh!tload of steak and chicken or wear a fat suit or something. I'm 5'8" and 180lbs and I'm just starting to approach being thick and muscular looking.
 

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my friend is doing that p90x stuff, he says it's pretty intense and has made him lose weight.

And to answer your question, if I understand it right. Go into the vault and look at the cutting and bulking guides. I think they have recommendations for how long you should do a cutting or bulking cycle. I think it's six weeks. If you arent fat hit the weights and eat everything. Keep up cardio not for the calorie burn but just to be fit. I weigh about 175 and Im 5 8, I have a six pack so without knowing you Im saying your target weight should be 148, now go bulk up!
 

oakraiderz2

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Im 6'4 200 and i still wanna gain about 10-15lbs. You need to start eating baby cows every day.
 

jahidi

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153 pounds is already pretty skinny for 6 feet tall, why did you want to lose more weight? I don't know a healthy minimum for your height but it's not something you should aim for because you're likely already very skinny.

If you want to get ripped it's time to hit the weights and start eating a lot. Read some threads in the vault (especially this one and follow the diet) and make a journal on here so the other members can help you along. Good luck.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Quagmire911

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jahidi said:
153 pounds is already pretty skinny for 6 feet tall, why did you want to lose more weight? I don't know a healthy minimum for your height but it's not something you should aim for because you're likely already very skinny.

If you want to get ripped it's time to hit the weights and start eating a lot. Read some threads in the vault (especially this one and follow the diet) and make a journal on here so the other members can help you along. Good luck.
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

Putting on 30lbs would be a good start and then going from there.
 

Mavrick

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My question is how long have you been doing P90X? You'll lose weight (fat) in the beginning and gain muscle toward the end. That is if you're doing it they way they tell you to do it.
 
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