niceguytoalphamale
Master Don Juan
Hey guys as you know I've been banging a hb9.. anyways she seems to be moving a little quick.. wants me to meet her family. I said I would now I'm regretting it. Got any tips to make this a smooth ride??
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Hb9 wants me too meet her family FML!
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
backseatjuan
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When you gonna meet them, her father going to ask you about your intentions. Tell him, I have serious intentions, and I'm not moving things forwards quickly, because going quickly makes you make mistakes. When asked about how slowly say you believe two years is a good time. When asked about your career, tell him you got great plans and sht.
He will offer you drinks. Limit yourself to no more than two drinks.
He will offer you drinks. Limit yourself to no more than two drinks.
niceguytoalphamale
Master Don Juan
F***ng great!!
backseatjuan
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There wouldn’t be sht tests. It’s gonna be a serious thing all the way, I’ve been through it in Uzbekistan. She's doing it to suggest an LTR, consider this same as her chasing your ass for a relationship. You'll be fine, so long as you don't get fcked up with her dad, or get high with him.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
logicallefty
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I wouldn't meet a HB's family that soon. You could always tell her: "I got to thinking about meeting your family. I'm sure they are great people and would probably be nicer to me than you are! (very joking tone). But I decided I would like to get to know you a little more first, and you me, before we sail on that boat"
good advice but i still wouldnt bother meating her parents just for the sake of meeting them (eg if u come to her home **** her and her mom comes back from job then thats different story)
niceguytoalphamale
Master Don Juan
Great advice everyone thanks
niceguytoalphamale
Master Don Juan
@LARaiders85 too be honest I'll get alot of hate for this maybe.. I am pretty high status and my ****iness shows it lol.. and I'm a really decent person inside and out.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
How could she possibly know that for sure after only a few weeks? Has your name already been forwarded for sainthood? Are you a billionaire? Do you have a bunch of nobels sitting around? I mean seriously, even if you are high value and a great guy, she doesn't really know that about you at this point, so no, this is way too soon.
ok, what exactly does that mean? you're trainable? I know plenty of phds that don't have sh*t. If that's her sole qualification for a high quality guy, send her my way, I'm sure I'd know better what to do with her at this point than this schmoe. this sappy attitude he has, he'll be back here within a year wondering what the f*ck happened and why she's banging the neighbor.
niceguytoalphamale
Master Don Juan
@highSpeed you sound like your talking from experience you don't know me at all.. I hold my head high and my nose in the air everywhere I walk.. so I must have done something right and I'm only in my mid twenties.. jealous much? Anyways I'm not gonna validate myself to you. So have a fantastic day lol
niceguytoalphamale
Master Don Juan
@highSpeed simple.. busting through those tests and congruence tests I'm not false at all. I don't put on a high value persona. It comes naturally. Have a fantastic day
niceguytoalphamale
Master Don Juan
@highSpeed with a attitude like yours I can only imagine why your banging 5s and 6s on a really lucky year p.s if you knew what to do with her how come you haven't got a hb9 right now? Proof is in the pudding mate. This isn't a d!ck measuring contest. Just be happy for me.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.