niceguytoalphamale
Master Don Juan
Hey guys as you know I've been banging a hb9.. anyways she seems to be moving a little quick.. wants me to meet her family. I said I would now I'm regretting it. Got any tips to make this a smooth ride??
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
#justSayNoHey guys as you know I've been banging a hb9.. anyways she seems to be moving a little quick.. wants me to meet her family. I said I would now I'm regretting it. Got any tips to make this a smooth ride??
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
When you gonna meet them, her father going to ask you about your intentions. Tell him, I have serious intentions, and I'm not moving things forwards quickly, because going quickly makes you make mistakes. When asked about how slowly say you believe two years is a good time. When asked about your career, tell him you got great plans and sht.
He will offer you drinks. Limit yourself to no more than two drinks.
@LARaiders85 too be honest I'll get alot of hate for this maybe.. I am pretty high status and my ****iness shows it lol.. and I'm a really decent person inside and out.Haha...love-bombing or if he is high status or a nice guy unlike the ex then she will want to parade him in front of the parents to make herself look good
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
How could she possibly know that for sure after only a few weeks? Has your name already been forwarded for sainthood? Are you a billionaire? Do you have a bunch of nobels sitting around? I mean seriously, even if you are high value and a great guy, she doesn't really know that about you at this point, so no, this is way too soon.@LARaiders85 too be honest I'll get alot of hate for this maybe.. I am pretty high status and my ****iness shows it lol.. and I'm a really decent person inside and out.
ok, what exactly does that mean? you're trainable? I know plenty of phds that don't have sh*t. If that's her sole qualification for a high quality guy, send her my way, I'm sure I'd know better what to do with her at this point than this schmoe. this sappy attitude he has, he'll be back here within a year wondering what the f*ck happened and why she's banging the neighbor.Advanced college degrees, done.
@highSpeed simple.. busting through those tests and congruence tests I'm not false at all. I don't put on a high value persona. It comes naturally. Have a fantastic dayHow could she possibly know that for sure after only a few weeks? Has your name already been forwarded for sainthood? Are you a billionaire? Do you have a bunch of nobels sitting around? I mean seriously, even if you are high value and a great guy, she doesn't really know that about you at this point, so no, this is way too soon.
@highSpeed with a attitude like yours I can only imagine why your banging 5s and 6s on a really lucky year p.s if you knew what to do with her how come you haven't got a hb9 right now? Proof is in the pudding mate. This isn't a d!ck measuring contest. Just be happy for me.ok, what exactly does that mean? you're trainable? I know plenty of phds that don't have sh*t. If that's her sole qualification for a high quality guy, send her my way, I'm sure I'd know better what to do with her at this point than this schmoe. this sappy attitude he has, he'll be back here within a year wondering what the f*ck happened and why she's banging the neighbor.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.