"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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HB9..How to start a relationship?

gimmeyofonenumba

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alright in the past girls asked me to be exclusive, or they dropped so many hints it was very easy. Long story short..we've been dating for a few mos. awesome sex numerous times. We hangout like twice a month because she's in the city I used to live in, she always calls or texts. She tells me she isnt good at doing anything love/relationship related, and Im quite sure she's expecting me to bring up the relationship thing...just how do i do it?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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badboyjmm

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gimmeyofonenumba said:
She tells me she isnt good at doing anything love/relationship related, and Im quite sure she's expecting me to bring up the relationship thing...just how do i do it?
For me, that could be a way of telling you that she wants to be exclusive (in a very strange way) or maybe she's just wanna keep it casual.

Anyways, it's better if the girl initiate that kind of talk. So just keep the good stuff going and let her come forward with the bf/gf talk.
 

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Tell her she doesnt need to be insecure you like her you want to be with her thats not so hard.
 

LoneWolf

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why would you want a relationship with a hottie? you see it everywhere man. they never last. id rather settle for an average like 6/7. at least then you know guys aren't trying to hit on her and checking her out every corner you walk. thats just me.. feels like a hassle to keep a hot girl around. you know how many guys want to tap that? its like a bunch of lions fighting over a piece of meat. shes gonna have guys chatting her up 24/7. big competition :p
 

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gimmeyofonenumba said:
we've been dating for a few mos. awesome sex numerous times. We hangout like twice a month
So you've been out with her like four times?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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let the girl bring up the relationship thing; Social Leper is exactly right.
 

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we've been on 5+ dates and weekend pow wows. No pics, your just gonna have to take my word.
 

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and lone wolf...man I dont know where to begin with your post. Yes, you obviously have to be secure about things. But I'll take a hb9, that could be all mine. rather then settle with a hb5 or 6 any day
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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LoneWolf said:
why would you want a relationship with a hottie? you see it everywhere man. they never last. id rather settle for an average like 6/7. at least then you know guys aren't trying to hit on her and checking her out every corner you walk. thats just me.. feels like a hassle to keep a hot girl around. you know how many guys want to tap that? its like a bunch of lions fighting over a piece of meat. shes gonna have guys chatting her up 24/7. big competition :p
Ew.

Would you settle for an average job too? With an average salary? Because, you know, a better job will have more people competing for it, and thus more stress to keep the job.

I don't know how you come to this site, of all places, preaching the values of "settling". People come here because they want to be more than an average dude who's settling for the average girl.

Go marry your 6, get a job as a plumber, and pop out some unambitious average-looking kids.
 

Mantis Toboggan

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LoneWolf said:
why would you want a relationship with a hottie? you see it everywhere man. they never last. id rather settle for an average like 6/7. at least then you know guys aren't trying to hit on her and checking her out every corner you walk. thats just me.. feels like a hassle to keep a hot girl around. you know how many guys want to tap that? its like a bunch of lions fighting over a piece of meat. shes gonna have guys chatting her up 24/7. big competition :p

Yeah.

You sound like a bit of a wiener.
 
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