Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
For me, that could be a way of telling you that she wants to be exclusive (in a very strange way) or maybe she's just wanna keep it casual.gimmeyofonenumba said:
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Well said.Social_Leper said:
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Ew.LoneWolf said:why would you want a relationship with a hottie? you see it everywhere man. they never last. id rather settle for an average like 6/7. at least then you know guys aren't trying to hit on her and checking her out every corner you walk. thats just me.. feels like a hassle to keep a hot girl around. you know how many guys want to tap that? its like a bunch of lions fighting over a piece of meat. shes gonna have guys chatting her up 24/7. big competition
LoneWolf said:why would you want a relationship with a hottie? you see it everywhere man. they never last. id rather settle for an average like 6/7. at least then you know guys aren't trying to hit on her and checking her out every corner you walk. thats just me.. feels like a hassle to keep a hot girl around. you know how many guys want to tap that? its like a bunch of lions fighting over a piece of meat. shes gonna have guys chatting her up 24/7. big competition
