"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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HB9..How to start a relationship?

gimmeyofonenumba

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alright in the past girls asked me to be exclusive, or they dropped so many hints it was very easy. Long story short..we've been dating for a few mos. awesome sex numerous times. We hangout like twice a month because she's in the city I used to live in, she always calls or texts. She tells me she isnt good at doing anything love/relationship related, and Im quite sure she's expecting me to bring up the relationship thing...just how do i do it?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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badboyjmm

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gimmeyofonenumba said:
She tells me she isnt good at doing anything love/relationship related, and Im quite sure she's expecting me to bring up the relationship thing...just how do i do it?
For me, that could be a way of telling you that she wants to be exclusive (in a very strange way) or maybe she's just wanna keep it casual.

Anyways, it's better if the girl initiate that kind of talk. So just keep the good stuff going and let her come forward with the bf/gf talk.
 

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Tell her she doesnt need to be insecure you like her you want to be with her thats not so hard.
 

LoneWolf

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why would you want a relationship with a hottie? you see it everywhere man. they never last. id rather settle for an average like 6/7. at least then you know guys aren't trying to hit on her and checking her out every corner you walk. thats just me.. feels like a hassle to keep a hot girl around. you know how many guys want to tap that? its like a bunch of lions fighting over a piece of meat. shes gonna have guys chatting her up 24/7. big competition :p
 

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gimmeyofonenumba said:
we've been dating for a few mos. awesome sex numerous times. We hangout like twice a month
So you've been out with her like four times?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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let the girl bring up the relationship thing; Social Leper is exactly right.
 

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we've been on 5+ dates and weekend pow wows. No pics, your just gonna have to take my word.
 

gimmeyofonenumba

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and lone wolf...man I dont know where to begin with your post. Yes, you obviously have to be secure about things. But I'll take a hb9, that could be all mine. rather then settle with a hb5 or 6 any day
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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LoneWolf said:
why would you want a relationship with a hottie? you see it everywhere man. they never last. id rather settle for an average like 6/7. at least then you know guys aren't trying to hit on her and checking her out every corner you walk. thats just me.. feels like a hassle to keep a hot girl around. you know how many guys want to tap that? its like a bunch of lions fighting over a piece of meat. shes gonna have guys chatting her up 24/7. big competition :p
Ew.

Would you settle for an average job too? With an average salary? Because, you know, a better job will have more people competing for it, and thus more stress to keep the job.

I don't know how you come to this site, of all places, preaching the values of "settling". People come here because they want to be more than an average dude who's settling for the average girl.

Go marry your 6, get a job as a plumber, and pop out some unambitious average-looking kids.
 

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LoneWolf said:
why would you want a relationship with a hottie? you see it everywhere man. they never last. id rather settle for an average like 6/7. at least then you know guys aren't trying to hit on her and checking her out every corner you walk. thats just me.. feels like a hassle to keep a hot girl around. you know how many guys want to tap that? its like a bunch of lions fighting over a piece of meat. shes gonna have guys chatting her up 24/7. big competition :p

Yeah.

You sound like a bit of a wiener.
 
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