“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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HB Ratings Are Meaningless

mackdaknife

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Check this out:

http://seehere.blogspot.com/2006/08/celebrities-without-makeup.html

It really makes you wonder, what girls you see initially ACTUALLY look like. I remember this girl I met who desperately wanted to go out with me. Looking at her, slightly plump, glasses, acne, I thought no way. I saw her a couple months later in a bar. Her makeup covered her acne, and her skin looked flawless. Her tight bodice hid her curves. She wore contacts. She went from a 5 or slightly lower to a 7, and I was really surprised. If I hadn't met her previously, I might've spent some serious effort gaming her!

Does this change your level of approach anxiety knowing how different even the most beautiful women look without makeup?

Charlize Theron without makeup (yikes!):
http://www.celeb-sextapes.com/2007/08/07/charlize-theron-belize-bikini-pictures/

Now, looking gorgeous madeup:

http://www.imdb.com/gallery/granitz....html?path=pgallery&path_key=Theron, Charlize
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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mintxx

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WHOA

my whey almost went down the wrong way man

ok that's a good point but some girls are just gorgeous full stop. my last girl looked the same at 6am as 6pm, simply because she was a honey. but then she was sri lankan and looked like a size 6 version of http://www.globalindianz.com/39b7.jpg
 

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That doesnt make them meaningless, it just changes their rating (ie hb 7 with makeup, hb 5 w/o).

What makes it meaningless is how there is no universal definition of a 10 or a 7 or any other number scale you use.
 

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what really makes it meaningless is the HB rating tells you NOTHING about the quality of woman you're trying to hook up with

HB10 w/ deep emotional issues = waste of time
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Usually most of us can agree on whether a girl is attractive or not, but what we always disagree on is whether she's just attractive or super attractive. One man's 7 is another man's 10. I've done some photo FRs before with some other DJ and his HB9 is my HB6, his HB6 is my HB9. The ways we approach them, due to their perceived values in our eyes, are quite different too. When I write my FRs now, I just note them down as HBs, with some other features to distinguish them instead of numbers (e.g Gym HB, Ginger HB etc.)

Makeup is a whole other story. I know this girl who's not much more than a plain jane (with a nice body though) when she's not wearing makeup. But she works in the theatre and is brilliant with hair styling, makeup and can make her own costumes. When she's dolled up, she is easily a 9 or 10 and stands out in any crowd.
 
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