"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

HB Ratings Are Meaningless

mackdaknife

Don Juan
Joined
Dec 4, 2007
Messages
40
Reaction score
0
Check this out:

http://seehere.blogspot.com/2006/08/celebrities-without-makeup.html

It really makes you wonder, what girls you see initially ACTUALLY look like. I remember this girl I met who desperately wanted to go out with me. Looking at her, slightly plump, glasses, acne, I thought no way. I saw her a couple months later in a bar. Her makeup covered her acne, and her skin looked flawless. Her tight bodice hid her curves. She wore contacts. She went from a 5 or slightly lower to a 7, and I was really surprised. If I hadn't met her previously, I might've spent some serious effort gaming her!

Does this change your level of approach anxiety knowing how different even the most beautiful women look without makeup?

Charlize Theron without makeup (yikes!):
http://www.celeb-sextapes.com/2007/08/07/charlize-theron-belize-bikini-pictures/

Now, looking gorgeous madeup:

http://www.imdb.com/gallery/granitz....html?path=pgallery&path_key=Theron, Charlize
 
Last edited:

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

mintxx

Senior Don Juan
Joined
May 8, 2007
Messages
446
Reaction score
9
WHOA

my whey almost went down the wrong way man

ok that's a good point but some girls are just gorgeous full stop. my last girl looked the same at 6am as 6pm, simply because she was a honey. but then she was sri lankan and looked like a size 6 version of http://www.globalindianz.com/39b7.jpg
 

zubs

Don Juan
Joined
Aug 24, 2007
Messages
88
Reaction score
0
Location
Minneapolis, Minnesota
That doesnt make them meaningless, it just changes their rating (ie hb 7 with makeup, hb 5 w/o).

What makes it meaningless is how there is no universal definition of a 10 or a 7 or any other number scale you use.
 

ready123

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 16, 2007
Messages
1,259
Reaction score
35
Location
Los Angeles
what really makes it meaningless is the HB rating tells you NOTHING about the quality of woman you're trying to hook up with

HB10 w/ deep emotional issues = waste of time
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

Jitterbug

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 12, 2008
Messages
3,197
Reaction score
140
Usually most of us can agree on whether a girl is attractive or not, but what we always disagree on is whether she's just attractive or super attractive. One man's 7 is another man's 10. I've done some photo FRs before with some other DJ and his HB9 is my HB6, his HB6 is my HB9. The ways we approach them, due to their perceived values in our eyes, are quite different too. When I write my FRs now, I just note them down as HBs, with some other features to distinguish them instead of numbers (e.g Gym HB, Ginger HB etc.)

Makeup is a whole other story. I know this girl who's not much more than a plain jane (with a nice body though) when she's not wearing makeup. But she works in the theatre and is brilliant with hair styling, makeup and can make her own costumes. When she's dolled up, she is easily a 9 or 10 and stands out in any crowd.
 
Top