"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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HB Ratings Are Meaningless

mackdaknife

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Check this out:

http://seehere.blogspot.com/2006/08/celebrities-without-makeup.html

It really makes you wonder, what girls you see initially ACTUALLY look like. I remember this girl I met who desperately wanted to go out with me. Looking at her, slightly plump, glasses, acne, I thought no way. I saw her a couple months later in a bar. Her makeup covered her acne, and her skin looked flawless. Her tight bodice hid her curves. She wore contacts. She went from a 5 or slightly lower to a 7, and I was really surprised. If I hadn't met her previously, I might've spent some serious effort gaming her!

Does this change your level of approach anxiety knowing how different even the most beautiful women look without makeup?

Charlize Theron without makeup (yikes!):
http://www.celeb-sextapes.com/2007/08/07/charlize-theron-belize-bikini-pictures/

Now, looking gorgeous madeup:

http://www.imdb.com/gallery/granitz....html?path=pgallery&path_key=Theron, Charlize
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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mintxx

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WHOA

my whey almost went down the wrong way man

ok that's a good point but some girls are just gorgeous full stop. my last girl looked the same at 6am as 6pm, simply because she was a honey. but then she was sri lankan and looked like a size 6 version of http://www.globalindianz.com/39b7.jpg
 

zubs

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That doesnt make them meaningless, it just changes their rating (ie hb 7 with makeup, hb 5 w/o).

What makes it meaningless is how there is no universal definition of a 10 or a 7 or any other number scale you use.
 

ready123

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what really makes it meaningless is the HB rating tells you NOTHING about the quality of woman you're trying to hook up with

HB10 w/ deep emotional issues = waste of time
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Jitterbug

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Usually most of us can agree on whether a girl is attractive or not, but what we always disagree on is whether she's just attractive or super attractive. One man's 7 is another man's 10. I've done some photo FRs before with some other DJ and his HB9 is my HB6, his HB6 is my HB9. The ways we approach them, due to their perceived values in our eyes, are quite different too. When I write my FRs now, I just note them down as HBs, with some other features to distinguish them instead of numbers (e.g Gym HB, Ginger HB etc.)

Makeup is a whole other story. I know this girl who's not much more than a plain jane (with a nice body though) when she's not wearing makeup. But she works in the theatre and is brilliant with hair styling, makeup and can make her own costumes. When she's dolled up, she is easily a 9 or 10 and stands out in any crowd.
 
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