"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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HB Ratings Are Meaningless

mackdaknife

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Check this out:

http://seehere.blogspot.com/2006/08/celebrities-without-makeup.html

It really makes you wonder, what girls you see initially ACTUALLY look like. I remember this girl I met who desperately wanted to go out with me. Looking at her, slightly plump, glasses, acne, I thought no way. I saw her a couple months later in a bar. Her makeup covered her acne, and her skin looked flawless. Her tight bodice hid her curves. She wore contacts. She went from a 5 or slightly lower to a 7, and I was really surprised. If I hadn't met her previously, I might've spent some serious effort gaming her!

Does this change your level of approach anxiety knowing how different even the most beautiful women look without makeup?

Charlize Theron without makeup (yikes!):
http://www.celeb-sextapes.com/2007/08/07/charlize-theron-belize-bikini-pictures/

Now, looking gorgeous madeup:

http://www.imdb.com/gallery/granitz....html?path=pgallery&path_key=Theron, Charlize
 
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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mintxx

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WHOA

my whey almost went down the wrong way man

ok that's a good point but some girls are just gorgeous full stop. my last girl looked the same at 6am as 6pm, simply because she was a honey. but then she was sri lankan and looked like a size 6 version of http://www.globalindianz.com/39b7.jpg
 

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That doesnt make them meaningless, it just changes their rating (ie hb 7 with makeup, hb 5 w/o).

What makes it meaningless is how there is no universal definition of a 10 or a 7 or any other number scale you use.
 

ready123

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what really makes it meaningless is the HB rating tells you NOTHING about the quality of woman you're trying to hook up with

HB10 w/ deep emotional issues = waste of time
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Usually most of us can agree on whether a girl is attractive or not, but what we always disagree on is whether she's just attractive or super attractive. One man's 7 is another man's 10. I've done some photo FRs before with some other DJ and his HB9 is my HB6, his HB6 is my HB9. The ways we approach them, due to their perceived values in our eyes, are quite different too. When I write my FRs now, I just note them down as HBs, with some other features to distinguish them instead of numbers (e.g Gym HB, Ginger HB etc.)

Makeup is a whole other story. I know this girl who's not much more than a plain jane (with a nice body though) when she's not wearing makeup. But she works in the theatre and is brilliant with hair styling, makeup and can make her own costumes. When she's dolled up, she is easily a 9 or 10 and stands out in any crowd.
 
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