"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Hb Level 1-10?

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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sylvester the cat

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yeah, i know. my ego just wanted to hear it from somebody else for once.
 

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Fvck you dude... who goes around fishing for compliments like that? You already had a bunch of ppl complimenting your looks in a previous thread. Jesus Christ, are you a faggot?
 

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d!ckmojo said:
Fvck you dude... who goes around fishing for compliments like that? You already had a bunch of ppl complimenting your looks in a previous thread. Jesus Christ, are you a faggot?
Calm the fvck down. If you don't want to compliment him, then don't. No one is holding a gun to your damned head while your hands tremble over the keyboard which is half burnt out due to all the sweat from your head dropping onto it.

On topic, Slyvester, you look good man. Ignore douchebags like this one here.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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ckdon said:
Calm the fvck down. If you don't want to compliment him, then don't. No one is holding a gun to your damned head while your hands tremble over the keyboard which is half burnt out due to all the sweat from your head dropping onto it.

On topic, Slyvester, you look good man. Ignore douchebags like this one here.
And you're a fvcking enabler!

The OP's problem of needing random internet ppl to compliment his looks for him to feel good about himself is a serious indicator of neediness and betahood.

DON'T indulge his pathology. It will only make the problem worse.

OP, you need to man the fvck up and stop seeking validation from external sources. Its a really off-putting character trait, and b1tches can smell that sh1t, that desperation, and will run a mile from it.
 

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And you're a fvcking enabler!

The OP's problem of needing random internet ppl to compliment his looks for him to feel good about himself is a serious indicator of neediness and betahood.

DON'T indulge his pathology. It will only make the problem worse.

OP, you need to man the fvck up and stop seeking validation from external sources. Its a really off-putting character trait, and b1tches can smell that sh1t, that desperation, and will run a mile from it.
Giving some reassurance or confidence boost here and there is no where near being an enabler.

The OP got a few compliments, so fvcking what? It's these compliment thats will help boost his CONFIDENCE, which is what the whole damned purpose of this forum is in the first place. Because without confidence, everything else falls. You can have all the looks and money, but if you don't have the confidence to walk and talk upright, it doesn't mean smack.

And all the OP is seeking for his confidence boost; from other men. Asking females is what would have been the wrong thing to do, and I'm sure all the responses here so far have come from men.

Take a chill pill, pipe down, and lay back. No one's shoving the barrel of a .357 up your ass, don't know why you're acting like someone is.
 

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You have to put individual quotes around each movie. Don't put all three under one quote.

...when I watched “Good Hill Hunting,” “Mulholland Drive” and “The Elephant Man,” I cuss too often...
 

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The OP copped plenty of compliments for his look in a previous thread a couple of days ago. I didn't comment in that thread, even though I thought it was gay, because I though "let the man have a confidence boost, why not..."

But then for him to come here and start and entire thread just for the purpose of fishing for more compliments from other men about his looks? Sorry, but I couldn't let that slide.

For the record, OP, "HB" is a term that only applies to women. You cannot have a "HB rating" because you're not a "HB". Or at least that's the way I understand it. I thought "HB" stood for "Hot Babe".

Or perhaps I'm wrong, but it doesn't matter. Its not a manly behaviour for a guy to go into an internet forum posting up pictures of himself all over the place and asking other men to compliment him on his appearance.

Look OP, you're not ugly, but you're not Ryan Gosling either. Girls aren't going to swoon over you just because you don't absolutely repel them with your appearance.

You need to have game as well, and coming onto So Suave and fishing for compliments about your looks is pretty much the anti-thesis of game.

You deserve my smackdown, so accept it gracefully, and everyone else who tried to prevent me from delivering righteous judgement on him should be ashamed of themselves.
 

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Yep, gotta agree with D!ck. I saw the other thread too. More than enough guys validated his "hotness". This is on the verge of getting very gay around here.

OP, cmon. You know you are a good looking guy. Start acting like it. And guys who act like it don't go around asking other guys to rate them.

KnowwhatImsayin"?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Lol. Well everybody has a point. Confidence was pretty low hence the thread.

However, I always thought the beta man was the one who loses their temper and starts calling everyone out.

Ok. no more 'rate me' threads. lol. thanks guys.

@PairPlus - I'm very in touch with my feminine side. plus i'm a scriptwriter.
 
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A woman decides to make herself available to a man based on that man's social behaviors such as grooming and dress.

A man decides to respond by approaching that woman based on her bodily appearance of youthful fertility.

It's sad when young men reverse this and become self-doubting peacocks or self-loathing wallflowers. It's sad when young women reverse this and endlessly fuss over hair plucking and clothes shopping and such.
 

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SYLVESTER THE CAT Just to check that you realise HB stands for HOT BABE, right?

Therefore you are a ZERO on my scale.

I dont rate men.
 

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Purefilth said:
SYLVESTER THE CAT Just to check that you realise HB stands for HOT BABE, right?

Therefore you are a ZERO on my scale.

I dont rate men.
Yeah. should've been HD - hot dude. lol.

no dramas. the show's over now. nothing to see here. please move along everybody. :up:
 
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