sylvester the cat
Master Don Juan
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She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Calm the fvck down. If you don't want to compliment him, then don't. No one is holding a gun to your damned head while your hands tremble over the keyboard which is half burnt out due to all the sweat from your head dropping onto it.d!ckmojo said:Fvck you dude... who goes around fishing for compliments like that? You already had a bunch of ppl complimenting your looks in a previous thread. Jesus Christ, are you a faggot?
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
And you're a fvcking enabler!ckdon said:Calm the fvck down. If you don't want to compliment him, then don't. No one is holding a gun to your damned head while your hands tremble over the keyboard which is half burnt out due to all the sweat from your head dropping onto it.
On topic, Slyvester, you look good man. Ignore douchebags like this one here.
Giving some reassurance or confidence boost here and there is no where near being an enabler.d!ckmojo said:And you're a fvcking enabler!
The OP's problem of needing random internet ppl to compliment his looks for him to feel good about himself is a serious indicator of neediness and betahood.
DON'T indulge his pathology. It will only make the problem worse.
OP, you need to man the fvck up and stop seeking validation from external sources. Its a really off-putting character trait, and b1tches can smell that sh1t, that desperation, and will run a mile from it.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Yeah. should've been HD - hot dude. lol.Purefilth said:SYLVESTER THE CAT Just to check that you realise HB stands for HOT BABE, right?
Therefore you are a ZERO on my scale.
I dont rate men.