sylvester the cat
Master Don Juan
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You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Calm the fvck down. If you don't want to compliment him, then don't. No one is holding a gun to your damned head while your hands tremble over the keyboard which is half burnt out due to all the sweat from your head dropping onto it.d!ckmojo said:Fvck you dude... who goes around fishing for compliments like that? You already had a bunch of ppl complimenting your looks in a previous thread. Jesus Christ, are you a faggot?
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
And you're a fvcking enabler!ckdon said:Calm the fvck down. If you don't want to compliment him, then don't. No one is holding a gun to your damned head while your hands tremble over the keyboard which is half burnt out due to all the sweat from your head dropping onto it.
On topic, Slyvester, you look good man. Ignore douchebags like this one here.
Giving some reassurance or confidence boost here and there is no where near being an enabler.d!ckmojo said:And you're a fvcking enabler!
The OP's problem of needing random internet ppl to compliment his looks for him to feel good about himself is a serious indicator of neediness and betahood.
DON'T indulge his pathology. It will only make the problem worse.
OP, you need to man the fvck up and stop seeking validation from external sources. Its a really off-putting character trait, and b1tches can smell that sh1t, that desperation, and will run a mile from it.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Yeah. should've been HD - hot dude. lol.Purefilth said:SYLVESTER THE CAT Just to check that you realise HB stands for HOT BABE, right?
Therefore you are a ZERO on my scale.
I dont rate men.