"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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sylvester the cat

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yeah, i know. my ego just wanted to hear it from somebody else for once.
 

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Fvck you dude... who goes around fishing for compliments like that? You already had a bunch of ppl complimenting your looks in a previous thread. Jesus Christ, are you a faggot?
 

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Fvck you dude... who goes around fishing for compliments like that? You already had a bunch of ppl complimenting your looks in a previous thread. Jesus Christ, are you a faggot?
Calm the fvck down. If you don't want to compliment him, then don't. No one is holding a gun to your damned head while your hands tremble over the keyboard which is half burnt out due to all the sweat from your head dropping onto it.

On topic, Slyvester, you look good man. Ignore douchebags like this one here.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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ckdon said:
Calm the fvck down. If you don't want to compliment him, then don't. No one is holding a gun to your damned head while your hands tremble over the keyboard which is half burnt out due to all the sweat from your head dropping onto it.

On topic, Slyvester, you look good man. Ignore douchebags like this one here.
And you're a fvcking enabler!

The OP's problem of needing random internet ppl to compliment his looks for him to feel good about himself is a serious indicator of neediness and betahood.

DON'T indulge his pathology. It will only make the problem worse.

OP, you need to man the fvck up and stop seeking validation from external sources. Its a really off-putting character trait, and b1tches can smell that sh1t, that desperation, and will run a mile from it.
 

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And you're a fvcking enabler!

The OP's problem of needing random internet ppl to compliment his looks for him to feel good about himself is a serious indicator of neediness and betahood.

DON'T indulge his pathology. It will only make the problem worse.

OP, you need to man the fvck up and stop seeking validation from external sources. Its a really off-putting character trait, and b1tches can smell that sh1t, that desperation, and will run a mile from it.
Giving some reassurance or confidence boost here and there is no where near being an enabler.

The OP got a few compliments, so fvcking what? It's these compliment thats will help boost his CONFIDENCE, which is what the whole damned purpose of this forum is in the first place. Because without confidence, everything else falls. You can have all the looks and money, but if you don't have the confidence to walk and talk upright, it doesn't mean smack.

And all the OP is seeking for his confidence boost; from other men. Asking females is what would have been the wrong thing to do, and I'm sure all the responses here so far have come from men.

Take a chill pill, pipe down, and lay back. No one's shoving the barrel of a .357 up your ass, don't know why you're acting like someone is.
 

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You have to put individual quotes around each movie. Don't put all three under one quote.

...when I watched “Good Hill Hunting,” “Mulholland Drive” and “The Elephant Man,” I cuss too often...
 

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The OP copped plenty of compliments for his look in a previous thread a couple of days ago. I didn't comment in that thread, even though I thought it was gay, because I though "let the man have a confidence boost, why not..."

But then for him to come here and start and entire thread just for the purpose of fishing for more compliments from other men about his looks? Sorry, but I couldn't let that slide.

For the record, OP, "HB" is a term that only applies to women. You cannot have a "HB rating" because you're not a "HB". Or at least that's the way I understand it. I thought "HB" stood for "Hot Babe".

Or perhaps I'm wrong, but it doesn't matter. Its not a manly behaviour for a guy to go into an internet forum posting up pictures of himself all over the place and asking other men to compliment him on his appearance.

Look OP, you're not ugly, but you're not Ryan Gosling either. Girls aren't going to swoon over you just because you don't absolutely repel them with your appearance.

You need to have game as well, and coming onto So Suave and fishing for compliments about your looks is pretty much the anti-thesis of game.

You deserve my smackdown, so accept it gracefully, and everyone else who tried to prevent me from delivering righteous judgement on him should be ashamed of themselves.
 

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Yep, gotta agree with D!ck. I saw the other thread too. More than enough guys validated his "hotness". This is on the verge of getting very gay around here.

OP, cmon. You know you are a good looking guy. Start acting like it. And guys who act like it don't go around asking other guys to rate them.

KnowwhatImsayin"?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Lol. Well everybody has a point. Confidence was pretty low hence the thread.

However, I always thought the beta man was the one who loses their temper and starts calling everyone out.

Ok. no more 'rate me' threads. lol. thanks guys.

@PairPlus - I'm very in touch with my feminine side. plus i'm a scriptwriter.
 
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A woman decides to make herself available to a man based on that man's social behaviors such as grooming and dress.

A man decides to respond by approaching that woman based on her bodily appearance of youthful fertility.

It's sad when young men reverse this and become self-doubting peacocks or self-loathing wallflowers. It's sad when young women reverse this and endlessly fuss over hair plucking and clothes shopping and such.
 

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SYLVESTER THE CAT Just to check that you realise HB stands for HOT BABE, right?

Therefore you are a ZERO on my scale.

I dont rate men.
 

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Purefilth said:
SYLVESTER THE CAT Just to check that you realise HB stands for HOT BABE, right?

Therefore you are a ZERO on my scale.

I dont rate men.
Yeah. should've been HD - hot dude. lol.

no dramas. the show's over now. nothing to see here. please move along everybody. :up:
 
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