"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Having trouble smiling/winking at girls? Try this!

snowdog

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Something i found out today.

I always had trouble winking/smiling at (hot) girls. Always. But then I found the following out. In my head, they were above me. I learned no to take them all too seriously. The best way to do it? While you look at the girl, SAY TO YOURSELF IN YOUR HEAD THE FOLLOWING: "i want to f*ck you (in your ass) like you owe me money...., b*tch".

Of course, this is hilarious. You would laugh if you heard someone else saying it. But saying this puts you in a sexual state, and in a very rude matter, you place yourself automatically above her. Make sure when you say it in your head, you direct it at her, while looking her in the eye.

It's easy, and it really works for me. It automatically puts an evil grin on my face that girls seem to find sexy because 99% of the cases i get a positive reaction. I use it every day and i'll keep using it until it comes natually to me. Tricks like these will turn into natural traits if you use them long and consistantly enough.


Check my journal in my sig if you find this good stuff. I'm really open for your comments/critique.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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j81

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lol, I like that. I'm gonna give it a try.

I always have trouble smiling at/making eye contact with hot girls too.
 

BMX

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Just reading that line already puts a grin on my face HAHA!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Rata Blanca

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Hahaha, hillarious! gonna try it.
 

j-flex

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it really works!!!, im very serious and almost never smile, but with that tip im always smiling!.

thanks bro
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Clarky

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Wow man i'm smiling to myself now haha

Yeah i like this, probably one of the best ways to increase self confidence around stunning chicks that i've heard of quickly!
 

dopexile

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LMAO I'm going to go out on a limb and guess you're not running for president based on the political incorrectness. I can't say if this works or not but thanks for the laugh.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Michele l'Arcangelo

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first time reading.

it sounded lame at first until you imagine it. the phrase is hilarious.

i usually don't bother with mindsets... but this is a to-do for me to try.
 

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Lol I tried this and I probably looked creepy because I was laughing out of nowhere.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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