Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Having trouble smiling/winking at girls? Try this!

snowdog

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Something i found out today.

I always had trouble winking/smiling at (hot) girls. Always. But then I found the following out. In my head, they were above me. I learned no to take them all too seriously. The best way to do it? While you look at the girl, SAY TO YOURSELF IN YOUR HEAD THE FOLLOWING: "i want to f*ck you (in your ass) like you owe me money...., b*tch".

Of course, this is hilarious. You would laugh if you heard someone else saying it. But saying this puts you in a sexual state, and in a very rude matter, you place yourself automatically above her. Make sure when you say it in your head, you direct it at her, while looking her in the eye.

It's easy, and it really works for me. It automatically puts an evil grin on my face that girls seem to find sexy because 99% of the cases i get a positive reaction. I use it every day and i'll keep using it until it comes natually to me. Tricks like these will turn into natural traits if you use them long and consistantly enough.


Check my journal in my sig if you find this good stuff. I'm really open for your comments/critique.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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j81

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lol, I like that. I'm gonna give it a try.

I always have trouble smiling at/making eye contact with hot girls too.
 

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Just reading that line already puts a grin on my face HAHA!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Rata Blanca

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Hahaha, hillarious! gonna try it.
 

j-flex

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it really works!!!, im very serious and almost never smile, but with that tip im always smiling!.

thanks bro
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Wow man i'm smiling to myself now haha

Yeah i like this, probably one of the best ways to increase self confidence around stunning chicks that i've heard of quickly!
 

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LMAO I'm going to go out on a limb and guess you're not running for president based on the political incorrectness. I can't say if this works or not but thanks for the laugh.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Michele l'Arcangelo

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first time reading.

it sounded lame at first until you imagine it. the phrase is hilarious.

i usually don't bother with mindsets... but this is a to-do for me to try.
 

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Lol I tried this and I probably looked creepy because I was laughing out of nowhere.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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