"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Having trouble smiling/winking at girls? Try this!

snowdog

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Something i found out today.

I always had trouble winking/smiling at (hot) girls. Always. But then I found the following out. In my head, they were above me. I learned no to take them all too seriously. The best way to do it? While you look at the girl, SAY TO YOURSELF IN YOUR HEAD THE FOLLOWING: "i want to f*ck you (in your ass) like you owe me money...., b*tch".

Of course, this is hilarious. You would laugh if you heard someone else saying it. But saying this puts you in a sexual state, and in a very rude matter, you place yourself automatically above her. Make sure when you say it in your head, you direct it at her, while looking her in the eye.

It's easy, and it really works for me. It automatically puts an evil grin on my face that girls seem to find sexy because 99% of the cases i get a positive reaction. I use it every day and i'll keep using it until it comes natually to me. Tricks like these will turn into natural traits if you use them long and consistantly enough.


Check my journal in my sig if you find this good stuff. I'm really open for your comments/critique.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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j81

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lol, I like that. I'm gonna give it a try.

I always have trouble smiling at/making eye contact with hot girls too.
 

BMX

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Just reading that line already puts a grin on my face HAHA!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Rata Blanca

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Hahaha, hillarious! gonna try it.
 

j-flex

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it really works!!!, im very serious and almost never smile, but with that tip im always smiling!.

thanks bro
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Clarky

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Wow man i'm smiling to myself now haha

Yeah i like this, probably one of the best ways to increase self confidence around stunning chicks that i've heard of quickly!
 

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LMAO I'm going to go out on a limb and guess you're not running for president based on the political incorrectness. I can't say if this works or not but thanks for the laugh.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Michele l'Arcangelo

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first time reading.

it sounded lame at first until you imagine it. the phrase is hilarious.

i usually don't bother with mindsets... but this is a to-do for me to try.
 

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Lol I tried this and I probably looked creepy because I was laughing out of nowhere.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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