"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Having trouble smiling/winking at girls? Try this!

snowdog

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Something i found out today.

I always had trouble winking/smiling at (hot) girls. Always. But then I found the following out. In my head, they were above me. I learned no to take them all too seriously. The best way to do it? While you look at the girl, SAY TO YOURSELF IN YOUR HEAD THE FOLLOWING: "i want to f*ck you (in your ass) like you owe me money...., b*tch".

Of course, this is hilarious. You would laugh if you heard someone else saying it. But saying this puts you in a sexual state, and in a very rude matter, you place yourself automatically above her. Make sure when you say it in your head, you direct it at her, while looking her in the eye.

It's easy, and it really works for me. It automatically puts an evil grin on my face that girls seem to find sexy because 99% of the cases i get a positive reaction. I use it every day and i'll keep using it until it comes natually to me. Tricks like these will turn into natural traits if you use them long and consistantly enough.


Check my journal in my sig if you find this good stuff. I'm really open for your comments/critique.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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j81

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lol, I like that. I'm gonna give it a try.

I always have trouble smiling at/making eye contact with hot girls too.
 

BMX

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Just reading that line already puts a grin on my face HAHA!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Rata Blanca

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Hahaha, hillarious! gonna try it.
 

j-flex

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it really works!!!, im very serious and almost never smile, but with that tip im always smiling!.

thanks bro
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Clarky

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Wow man i'm smiling to myself now haha

Yeah i like this, probably one of the best ways to increase self confidence around stunning chicks that i've heard of quickly!
 

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LMAO I'm going to go out on a limb and guess you're not running for president based on the political incorrectness. I can't say if this works or not but thanks for the laugh.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Michele l'Arcangelo

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first time reading.

it sounded lame at first until you imagine it. the phrase is hilarious.

i usually don't bother with mindsets... but this is a to-do for me to try.
 

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Lol I tried this and I probably looked creepy because I was laughing out of nowhere.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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