"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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having higher energy that the girl

another_nice_guy

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I am travelling in South America at the moment and met a guy who I talked game with. He was saying that a guy also has to have more energy that the girl when talking to her.

But couldnt this come across as being desperate?? I couldnt find any mention of this theory when doing a search.

My friend somehow bedded a 9 that night, he even admitted she was way out of his league so he must have done something right.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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SgtSplacker

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For some reason after reading the subject I read your post really fast.


But no, you should only have your energy just a little higher than hers. Just enough to lead her through the night and into the sack.
 

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SgtSplacker said:
For some reason after reading the subject I read your post really fast.


But no, you should only have your energy just a little higher than hers. Just enough to lead her through the night and into the sack.
^This.

Being too animated and having too much energy can come across as gay.

It's great entertainment for the girl, but no so good for getting you laid.
 

DJVladdy

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this^^^

Do not come across as a dancing monkey. Match your energy to same level as hers. If she is feeling you, your energy can be wherever you want it.
 
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