"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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having higher energy that the girl

another_nice_guy

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I am travelling in South America at the moment and met a guy who I talked game with. He was saying that a guy also has to have more energy that the girl when talking to her.

But couldnt this come across as being desperate?? I couldnt find any mention of this theory when doing a search.

My friend somehow bedded a 9 that night, he even admitted she was way out of his league so he must have done something right.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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For some reason after reading the subject I read your post really fast.


But no, you should only have your energy just a little higher than hers. Just enough to lead her through the night and into the sack.
 

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SgtSplacker said:
For some reason after reading the subject I read your post really fast.


But no, you should only have your energy just a little higher than hers. Just enough to lead her through the night and into the sack.
^This.

Being too animated and having too much energy can come across as gay.

It's great entertainment for the girl, but no so good for getting you laid.
 

DJVladdy

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this^^^

Do not come across as a dancing monkey. Match your energy to same level as hers. If she is feeling you, your energy can be wherever you want it.
 
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