"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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having higher energy that the girl

another_nice_guy

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I am travelling in South America at the moment and met a guy who I talked game with. He was saying that a guy also has to have more energy that the girl when talking to her.

But couldnt this come across as being desperate?? I couldnt find any mention of this theory when doing a search.

My friend somehow bedded a 9 that night, he even admitted she was way out of his league so he must have done something right.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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SgtSplacker

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For some reason after reading the subject I read your post really fast.


But no, you should only have your energy just a little higher than hers. Just enough to lead her through the night and into the sack.
 

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SgtSplacker said:
For some reason after reading the subject I read your post really fast.


But no, you should only have your energy just a little higher than hers. Just enough to lead her through the night and into the sack.
^This.

Being too animated and having too much energy can come across as gay.

It's great entertainment for the girl, but no so good for getting you laid.
 

DJVladdy

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this^^^

Do not come across as a dancing monkey. Match your energy to same level as hers. If she is feeling you, your energy can be wherever you want it.
 
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