"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Having a porn site X reading this site

Thread starter Dark Haired Alpha
Start date Apr 5, 2006

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Dark Haired Alpha

Don Juan

#1

If you did both, would you rather admit to all your contemporaries (classmates, friends ...) that

a) you own a porn site

OR

b) you read this site

?

And be honest please. Realize what everything it would mean for your life BEFORE YOU POST. Think about it. I didn't post a poll because I want to know reasons.

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Soprano

Master Don Juan

#2

i do own some porn sites and all my friends know :-\

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Cruise

Senior Don Juan

#3

I really don't see what's wrong with a site like this though... so my answer only follows that thought pattern.

This, to me, is like a mere extension of my learning social dynamics. To deny growth would be like denying...

that...

i own a porn site...

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S1NN3R

Master Don Juan

#4

Everybody owns a porn site. I own VegasAdultModels.com. I don't do anything with it, but I still own it.

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comic_relief

Master Don Juan

#5

I've admitted to going to this site multiple times. I just tell them it is a self-esteem gaining site and they leave it at that.

comic_relief

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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siph

Don Juan

#6

nope, only told one person about this site and i realized it didnt help most, if they needed it, theyd find it
and i only tell people who will help me/my business that i run a porn site. no point in creating gossip for nothing
so i basically lead a double life lol

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Dark Haired Alpha

Don Juan

#7

Cruise said:
I really don't see what's wrong with a site like this though...

Nothing, but the others won't get it. They knew you as a loser and now you are a respected man who gets hot girls. Everyone is asking yourself how you did it and then they find out you're reading some Don Juan Discussion Forum and will think you're just tricking everyone by fake behaviour and some tricks you found on the net.

Yeah and I own a porn site which makes me money and my friends know. No big deal, but I think that the latter admission would ruin everything I have now.

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SELF-MASTERY

Banned

#8

I showed this cute married girl sosuave.com today in my technology class, and I told her: "this site will teach me how to get u naked, and will make you leave ur husband." she started laughing and pulled it up on her laptop. She called the guys in the general forum byatches....

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wavejams007

Master Don Juan

#9

I would just tell about this site, cuz I don't post that much which might cause her to despize me.

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Cruise

Senior Don Juan

#10

SELF-MASTERY said:
I showed this cute married girl sosuave.com today in my technology class, and I told her: "this site will teach me how to get u naked, and will make you leave ur husband." she started laughing and pulled it up on her laptop. She called the guys in the general forum byatches....

I like her already :rockon:

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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SELF-MASTERY

Banned

#11

I wish I didn't have a guilt complex, so I could FK her.

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Dark Haired Alpha

Don Juan

#12

SELF-MASTERY said:
She called the guys in the general forum byatches....

She called me a b!tch?

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Cruise

Senior Don Juan

#13

Dark Haired Alpha said:
She called me a b!tch?

Nope. She called you a byatch. :kick:

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Shiftkey

Master Don Juan

#14

I wouldn't have a problem with either. Really all this website is is Maxim or FHM without the half naked chicks. And if I had a porn site, most of my friends would probably be jealous lol

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Taviii

Master Don Juan

#15

Hey lads! Could you give more details about owning a porn site?

If I could get more details about this business then I would consider opening my own.

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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dannowillbookem

Master Don Juan

#16

i wanna open a porn site. which would be really cool for a sixteen year old. haha

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Brian20o2

Master Don Juan

#17

Ive told a couple of my friends about this site. They call me a player wanna be. and say "Why would yo need to read a site about getting girls? You just do it." yet 2/3 of them are virgins. lol. Whos the fool? The one who wants to improve or the ignorant vigin who thinks its easy?

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manuva

Master Don Juan

#18

I'd love to own a porn site.

And if I did own a porn site, I'd tell everyone.

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