Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

Having a porn site X reading this site

Thread starter Dark Haired Alpha
Start date Apr 5, 2006

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Dark Haired Alpha

Don Juan

#1

If you did both, would you rather admit to all your contemporaries (classmates, friends ...) that

a) you own a porn site

OR

b) you read this site

?

And be honest please. Realize what everything it would mean for your life BEFORE YOU POST. Think about it. I didn't post a poll because I want to know reasons.

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Soprano

Master Don Juan

#2

i do own some porn sites and all my friends know :-\

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Cruise

Senior Don Juan

#3

I really don't see what's wrong with a site like this though... so my answer only follows that thought pattern.

This, to me, is like a mere extension of my learning social dynamics. To deny growth would be like denying...

that...

i own a porn site...

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S1NN3R

Master Don Juan

#4

Everybody owns a porn site. I own VegasAdultModels.com. I don't do anything with it, but I still own it.

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comic_relief

Master Don Juan

#5

I've admitted to going to this site multiple times. I just tell them it is a self-esteem gaining site and they leave it at that.

comic_relief

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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siph

Don Juan

#6

nope, only told one person about this site and i realized it didnt help most, if they needed it, theyd find it
and i only tell people who will help me/my business that i run a porn site. no point in creating gossip for nothing
so i basically lead a double life lol

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Dark Haired Alpha

Don Juan

#7

Cruise said:
I really don't see what's wrong with a site like this though...

Nothing, but the others won't get it. They knew you as a loser and now you are a respected man who gets hot girls. Everyone is asking yourself how you did it and then they find out you're reading some Don Juan Discussion Forum and will think you're just tricking everyone by fake behaviour and some tricks you found on the net.

Yeah and I own a porn site which makes me money and my friends know. No big deal, but I think that the latter admission would ruin everything I have now.

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SELF-MASTERY

Banned

#8

I showed this cute married girl sosuave.com today in my technology class, and I told her: "this site will teach me how to get u naked, and will make you leave ur husband." she started laughing and pulled it up on her laptop. She called the guys in the general forum byatches....

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wavejams007

Master Don Juan

#9

I would just tell about this site, cuz I don't post that much which might cause her to despize me.

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Cruise

Senior Don Juan

#10

SELF-MASTERY said:
I showed this cute married girl sosuave.com today in my technology class, and I told her: "this site will teach me how to get u naked, and will make you leave ur husband." she started laughing and pulled it up on her laptop. She called the guys in the general forum byatches....

I like her already :rockon:

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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SELF-MASTERY

Banned

#11

I wish I didn't have a guilt complex, so I could FK her.

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Dark Haired Alpha

Don Juan

#12

SELF-MASTERY said:
She called the guys in the general forum byatches....

She called me a b!tch?

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Cruise

Senior Don Juan

#13

Dark Haired Alpha said:
She called me a b!tch?

Nope. She called you a byatch. :kick:

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Shiftkey

Master Don Juan

#14

I wouldn't have a problem with either. Really all this website is is Maxim or FHM without the half naked chicks. And if I had a porn site, most of my friends would probably be jealous lol

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Taviii

Master Don Juan

#15

Hey lads! Could you give more details about owning a porn site?

If I could get more details about this business then I would consider opening my own.

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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dannowillbookem

Master Don Juan

#16

i wanna open a porn site. which would be really cool for a sixteen year old. haha

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Brian20o2

Master Don Juan

#17

Ive told a couple of my friends about this site. They call me a player wanna be. and say "Why would yo need to read a site about getting girls? You just do it." yet 2/3 of them are virgins. lol. Whos the fool? The one who wants to improve or the ignorant vigin who thinks its easy?

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manuva

Master Don Juan

#18

I'd love to own a porn site.

And if I did own a porn site, I'd tell everyone.

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