"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Having a porn site X reading this site

Thread starter Dark Haired Alpha
Start date Apr 5, 2006

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Dark Haired Alpha

Don Juan

#1

If you did both, would you rather admit to all your contemporaries (classmates, friends ...) that

a) you own a porn site

OR

b) you read this site

?

And be honest please. Realize what everything it would mean for your life BEFORE YOU POST. Think about it. I didn't post a poll because I want to know reasons.

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Soprano

Master Don Juan

#2

i do own some porn sites and all my friends know :-\

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Cruise

Senior Don Juan

#3

I really don't see what's wrong with a site like this though... so my answer only follows that thought pattern.

This, to me, is like a mere extension of my learning social dynamics. To deny growth would be like denying...

that...

i own a porn site...

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S1NN3R

Master Don Juan

#4

Everybody owns a porn site. I own VegasAdultModels.com. I don't do anything with it, but I still own it.

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comic_relief

Master Don Juan

#5

I've admitted to going to this site multiple times. I just tell them it is a self-esteem gaining site and they leave it at that.

comic_relief

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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siph

Don Juan

#6

nope, only told one person about this site and i realized it didnt help most, if they needed it, theyd find it
and i only tell people who will help me/my business that i run a porn site. no point in creating gossip for nothing
so i basically lead a double life lol

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Dark Haired Alpha

Don Juan

#7

Cruise said:
I really don't see what's wrong with a site like this though...

Nothing, but the others won't get it. They knew you as a loser and now you are a respected man who gets hot girls. Everyone is asking yourself how you did it and then they find out you're reading some Don Juan Discussion Forum and will think you're just tricking everyone by fake behaviour and some tricks you found on the net.

Yeah and I own a porn site which makes me money and my friends know. No big deal, but I think that the latter admission would ruin everything I have now.

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SELF-MASTERY

Banned

#8

I showed this cute married girl sosuave.com today in my technology class, and I told her: "this site will teach me how to get u naked, and will make you leave ur husband." she started laughing and pulled it up on her laptop. She called the guys in the general forum byatches....

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wavejams007

Master Don Juan

#9

I would just tell about this site, cuz I don't post that much which might cause her to despize me.

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Cruise

Senior Don Juan

#10

SELF-MASTERY said:
I showed this cute married girl sosuave.com today in my technology class, and I told her: "this site will teach me how to get u naked, and will make you leave ur husband." she started laughing and pulled it up on her laptop. She called the guys in the general forum byatches....

I like her already :rockon:

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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SELF-MASTERY

Banned

#11

I wish I didn't have a guilt complex, so I could FK her.

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Dark Haired Alpha

Don Juan

#12

SELF-MASTERY said:
She called the guys in the general forum byatches....

She called me a b!tch?

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Cruise

Senior Don Juan

#13

Dark Haired Alpha said:
She called me a b!tch?

Nope. She called you a byatch. :kick:

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Shiftkey

Master Don Juan

#14

I wouldn't have a problem with either. Really all this website is is Maxim or FHM without the half naked chicks. And if I had a porn site, most of my friends would probably be jealous lol

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Taviii

Master Don Juan

#15

Hey lads! Could you give more details about owning a porn site?

If I could get more details about this business then I would consider opening my own.

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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dannowillbookem

Master Don Juan

#16

i wanna open a porn site. which would be really cool for a sixteen year old. haha

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Brian20o2

Master Don Juan

#17

Ive told a couple of my friends about this site. They call me a player wanna be. and say "Why would yo need to read a site about getting girls? You just do it." yet 2/3 of them are virgins. lol. Whos the fool? The one who wants to improve or the ignorant vigin who thinks its easy?

M

manuva

Master Don Juan

#18

I'd love to own a porn site.

And if I did own a porn site, I'd tell everyone.

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