"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Having a porn site X reading this site

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If you did both, would you rather admit to all your contemporaries (classmates, friends ...) that

a) you own a porn site

OR

b) you read this site

?

And be honest please. Realize what everything it would mean for your life BEFORE YOU POST. Think about it. I didn't post a poll because I want to know reasons.

:up:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Soprano

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i do own some porn sites and all my friends know :-\
 

Cruise

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I really don't see what's wrong with a site like this though... so my answer only follows that thought pattern.


This, to me, is like a mere extension of my learning social dynamics. To deny growth would be like denying...

that...

i own a porn site... :)
 

S1NN3R

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Everybody owns a porn site. I own VegasAdultModels.com. I don't do anything with it, but I still own it.
 

comic_relief

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I've admitted to going to this site multiple times. I just tell them it is a self-esteem gaining site and they leave it at that.

comic_relief
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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siph

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nope, only told one person about this site and i realized it didnt help most, if they needed it, theyd find it
and i only tell people who will help me/my business that i run a porn site. no point in creating gossip for nothing
so i basically lead a double life lol
 
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Cruise said:
I really don't see what's wrong with a site like this though...
Nothing, but the others won't get it. They knew you as a loser and now you are a respected man who gets hot girls. Everyone is asking yourself how you did it and then they find out you're reading some Don Juan Discussion Forum and will think you're just tricking everyone by fake behaviour and some tricks you found on the net.

Yeah and I own a porn site which makes me money and my friends know. No big deal, but I think that the latter admission would ruin everything I have now.
 

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I showed this cute married girl sosuave.com today in my technology class, and I told her: "this site will teach me how to get u naked, and will make you leave ur husband." she started laughing and pulled it up on her laptop. She called the guys in the general forum byatches....
 

wavejams007

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I would just tell about this site, cuz I don't post that much which might cause her to despize me.
 

Cruise

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SELF-MASTERY said:
I showed this cute married girl sosuave.com today in my technology class, and I told her: "this site will teach me how to get u naked, and will make you leave ur husband." she started laughing and pulled it up on her laptop. She called the guys in the general forum byatches....

I like her already :rockon:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I wish I didn't have a guilt complex, so I could FK her.
 

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I wouldn't have a problem with either. Really all this website is is Maxim or FHM without the half naked chicks. And if I had a porn site, most of my friends would probably be jealous lol
 

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Hey lads! Could you give more details about owning a porn site?

If I could get more details about this business then I would consider opening my own.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Brian20o2

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Ive told a couple of my friends about this site. They call me a player wanna be. and say "Why would yo need to read a site about getting girls? You just do it." yet 2/3 of them are virgins. lol. Whos the fool? The one who wants to improve or the ignorant vigin who thinks its easy?
 

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I'd love to own a porn site.

And if I did own a porn site, I'd tell everyone.
 
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