"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Have you or would you bang a neighbour?

TheMonkeyKing

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TMK has a hot neighbour who gives him a look like she wants to tear a piece out of his hot monkey ass every time he sees her.

I imagine similar pitfalls as with dipping in to the office ink. A bit too close to home, in every sense.

Any advice gratefully received.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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El Payaso

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If she's hot, why not? As long as she doesn't have a husband or boyfriend.
 

dustmuffin

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I would go for it. If it goes south just ignore. I agree with El payaso.
 

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Never never never never would I do such a thing.

Every girl you bring home after that, she'll stalk her outside and fill their heads with madness. (Which is fine, but any girl you get with will be FORCED to see your "ex" on a regular basis).

Maybe just me, but I imagine knives coming at me in my sleep in that scenario...
 

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Did it, doing it.... the best is when they live right in front of each other ;)

It save time and great breakfast moment
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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sazc

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oh mai gudness... be careful!
 

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as long as she isn't some psycho and the breakup isn't horrible then you'll be fine.

if she wants to try and spite you or mark her territory with any other girl she sees at your house after you break up, then she's probably some psycho and you'll need to move
 

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Why not it's a piece of azz just don't develop any feelings for her or get within 100 yards of having a relationship, it's a very convenient booty call if you ask me.
 

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She would have to be incredibly hot without a psycho ex or husband.
 

wifehunter

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Don't sh!t where you sleep.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Chev.Chelios

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Not a good idea if your a chode and fall easily into oneitus like when I was a teenager.. train wreck
 

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Thanks folks. All good points made.

Gonna invite her out for a drink and do a bit of screening.
 
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