"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Have you or would you bang a neighbour?

TheMonkeyKing

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TMK has a hot neighbour who gives him a look like she wants to tear a piece out of his hot monkey ass every time he sees her.

I imagine similar pitfalls as with dipping in to the office ink. A bit too close to home, in every sense.

Any advice gratefully received.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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El Payaso

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If she's hot, why not? As long as she doesn't have a husband or boyfriend.
 

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I would go for it. If it goes south just ignore. I agree with El payaso.
 

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Never never never never would I do such a thing.

Every girl you bring home after that, she'll stalk her outside and fill their heads with madness. (Which is fine, but any girl you get with will be FORCED to see your "ex" on a regular basis).

Maybe just me, but I imagine knives coming at me in my sleep in that scenario...
 

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Did it, doing it.... the best is when they live right in front of each other ;)

It save time and great breakfast moment
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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sazc

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oh mai gudness... be careful!
 

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as long as she isn't some psycho and the breakup isn't horrible then you'll be fine.

if she wants to try and spite you or mark her territory with any other girl she sees at your house after you break up, then she's probably some psycho and you'll need to move
 

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Why not it's a piece of azz just don't develop any feelings for her or get within 100 yards of having a relationship, it's a very convenient booty call if you ask me.
 

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She would have to be incredibly hot without a psycho ex or husband.
 

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Don't sh!t where you sleep.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Chev.Chelios

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Not a good idea if your a chode and fall easily into oneitus like when I was a teenager.. train wreck
 

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Thanks folks. All good points made.

Gonna invite her out for a drink and do a bit of screening.
 
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