"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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have you ever taken a joke too far?

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Have you ever made a joke that was simply too offensive or pervy and you saw the women's IL seemingly plummet right before your eyes?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Yeah, this has happened to me many times before but with this girl most recently I was talking to I discovered something. She replied with a b1tchy remark, so I said "Wow that was fvcking rude sounds like someone doesn't have a sense of humor".. We were texting so I didn't reply for a good 45 minutes and she texted me again "Hey are you mad".. Didn't reply then a couple minutes later she's saying "I'm sorry talk to me!"

Then again this girl was also a total AW. She even told me she wanted to do porn, and when we stopped dating she instantly went back in a relationship with her ex.
 
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DJ_Hero said:
A joke only goes too far when you don't find it funny any more.
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That's an interesting philosophy. Very wise for your age.
 
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piday314 said:
Have you ever made a joke that was simply too offensive or pervy and you saw the women's IL seemingly plummet right before your eyes?
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Probably looking back, although I never really cared. When I'm one on one with a girl I'm dating, I bust their balls a lot. I make offensive jokes (note: offensive in the sense that it'll illicit them hitting me on the shoulder or something with the remark "you're such an ass!", or they'll give me that face where its a mix between a shock and a grin... Not the kind of offensive jokes that socially retarded nerds make about the holocaust or whatnot), I poke fun at people in a good-natured way, my sense of humor is a cross between witty and ******* without going too far on either spectrum. Either they like it or they don't. If they don't, it's a pretty big turn off for me, so the last thing on my mind is me worrying about her interest level.

Tell jokes because you think they're funny or because you want to see someone's reaction for your own amusement, not because you're trying to maintain her interest level.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Taking a joke too far?

That's hilarious.

We've got T.V., Facebook AW's, PUA's, Sexting, people sending pics of their genitals, raunchy comedians, the news, celebrities, and so on and so on that go on on a daily basis "taking things too far"....and you think you may've taken a "joke" too far? People don't live in a bubble.

If someone feels you've "taken things too far". Laugh in their face at their hypocrisy. Like they are clueless to it all.
 
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