"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
have you ever taken a joke too far?
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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Then again this girl was also a total AW. She even told me she wanted to do porn, and when we stopped dating she instantly went back in a relationship with her ex.
That's an interesting philosophy. Very wise for your age.DJ_Hero said:A joke only goes too far when you don't find it funny any more.
Probably looking back, although I never really cared. When I'm one on one with a girl I'm dating, I bust their balls a lot. I make offensive jokes (note: offensive in the sense that it'll illicit them hitting me on the shoulder or something with the remark "you're such an ass!", or they'll give me that face where its a mix between a shock and a grin... Not the kind of offensive jokes that socially retarded nerds make about the holocaust or whatnot), I poke fun at people in a good-natured way, my sense of humor is a cross between witty and ******* without going too far on either spectrum. Either they like it or they don't. If they don't, it's a pretty big turn off for me, so the last thing on my mind is me worrying about her interest level.piday314 said:Have you ever made a joke that was simply too offensive or pervy and you saw the women's IL seemingly plummet right before your eyes?
Tell jokes because you think they're funny or because you want to see someone's reaction for your own amusement, not because you're trying to maintain her interest level.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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That's hilarious.
We've got T.V., Facebook AW's, PUA's, Sexting, people sending pics of their genitals, raunchy comedians, the news, celebrities, and so on and so on that go on on a daily basis "taking things too far"....and you think you may've taken a "joke" too far? People don't live in a bubble.
If someone feels you've "taken things too far". Laugh in their face at their hypocrisy. Like they are clueless to it all.