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Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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have you ever taken a joke too far?

piday314

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Have you ever made a joke that was simply too offensive or pervy and you saw the women's IL seemingly plummet right before your eyes?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Yeah, this has happened to me many times before but with this girl most recently I was talking to I discovered something. She replied with a b1tchy remark, so I said "Wow that was fvcking rude sounds like someone doesn't have a sense of humor".. We were texting so I didn't reply for a good 45 minutes and she texted me again "Hey are you mad".. Didn't reply then a couple minutes later she's saying "I'm sorry talk to me!"

Then again this girl was also a total AW. She even told me she wanted to do porn, and when we stopped dating she instantly went back in a relationship with her ex.
 

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DJ_Hero said:
A joke only goes too far when you don't find it funny any more.
That's an interesting philosophy. Very wise for your age.
 

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piday314 said:
Have you ever made a joke that was simply too offensive or pervy and you saw the women's IL seemingly plummet right before your eyes?
Probably looking back, although I never really cared. When I'm one on one with a girl I'm dating, I bust their balls a lot. I make offensive jokes (note: offensive in the sense that it'll illicit them hitting me on the shoulder or something with the remark "you're such an ass!", or they'll give me that face where its a mix between a shock and a grin... Not the kind of offensive jokes that socially retarded nerds make about the holocaust or whatnot), I poke fun at people in a good-natured way, my sense of humor is a cross between witty and ******* without going too far on either spectrum. Either they like it or they don't. If they don't, it's a pretty big turn off for me, so the last thing on my mind is me worrying about her interest level.

Tell jokes because you think they're funny or because you want to see someone's reaction for your own amusement, not because you're trying to maintain her interest level.
 

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Taking a joke too far?

That's hilarious.

We've got T.V., Facebook AW's, PUA's, Sexting, people sending pics of their genitals, raunchy comedians, the news, celebrities, and so on and so on that go on on a daily basis "taking things too far"....and you think you may've taken a "joke" too far? People don't live in a bubble.

If someone feels you've "taken things too far". Laugh in their face at their hypocrisy. Like they are clueless to it all.
 
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