"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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have you ever taken a joke too far?

piday314

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Have you ever made a joke that was simply too offensive or pervy and you saw the women's IL seemingly plummet right before your eyes?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Yeah, this has happened to me many times before but with this girl most recently I was talking to I discovered something. She replied with a b1tchy remark, so I said "Wow that was fvcking rude sounds like someone doesn't have a sense of humor".. We were texting so I didn't reply for a good 45 minutes and she texted me again "Hey are you mad".. Didn't reply then a couple minutes later she's saying "I'm sorry talk to me!"

Then again this girl was also a total AW. She even told me she wanted to do porn, and when we stopped dating she instantly went back in a relationship with her ex.
 

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DJ_Hero said:
A joke only goes too far when you don't find it funny any more.
That's an interesting philosophy. Very wise for your age.
 

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piday314 said:
Have you ever made a joke that was simply too offensive or pervy and you saw the women's IL seemingly plummet right before your eyes?
Probably looking back, although I never really cared. When I'm one on one with a girl I'm dating, I bust their balls a lot. I make offensive jokes (note: offensive in the sense that it'll illicit them hitting me on the shoulder or something with the remark "you're such an ass!", or they'll give me that face where its a mix between a shock and a grin... Not the kind of offensive jokes that socially retarded nerds make about the holocaust or whatnot), I poke fun at people in a good-natured way, my sense of humor is a cross between witty and ******* without going too far on either spectrum. Either they like it or they don't. If they don't, it's a pretty big turn off for me, so the last thing on my mind is me worrying about her interest level.

Tell jokes because you think they're funny or because you want to see someone's reaction for your own amusement, not because you're trying to maintain her interest level.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Taking a joke too far?

That's hilarious.

We've got T.V., Facebook AW's, PUA's, Sexting, people sending pics of their genitals, raunchy comedians, the news, celebrities, and so on and so on that go on on a daily basis "taking things too far"....and you think you may've taken a "joke" too far? People don't live in a bubble.

If someone feels you've "taken things too far". Laugh in their face at their hypocrisy. Like they are clueless to it all.
 
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