Have you ever met a woman that is extremely charitable, is very caring, the perfect host when you are at their home, always extremely nice to everyone including strangers, goes out of their way for others on a daily basis, looks after and cares for her family extremely well, possibly has a job caring for others aswell i.e. nurse, basically goes beyond the call of duty every day and holds a very high moral compass and seems like Florence nightingale on steroids........... but behind it all is an extremely quick minded, clever liar and a cheat and extremely manipulative?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Have you ever met a woman that.....
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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Clearly you've not read many threads on this forum then.switch7 said:
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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Women in South Atlanta.
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We've all pretty much met women like the one you describe. You just have to look closely. They can't mask it forever, and it always comes out even if it is just momentarily.
One thing I've seen is a lot of nurses are some of the worst most phony acting people out there. They're working a job where they care for people, but in real life they're selfish, deceptive, and self absorbed: the complete opposite of what you'd expect them to be.
One thing I've seen is a lot of nurses are some of the worst most phony acting people out there. They're working a job where they care for people, but in real life they're selfish, deceptive, and self absorbed: the complete opposite of what you'd expect them to be.
..."I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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I know a few cops and firefighters.......very arrogant, the firefighters not so much....