Have you ever met a woman that is extremely charitable, is very caring, the perfect host when you are at their home, always extremely nice to everyone including strangers, goes out of their way for others on a daily basis, looks after and cares for her family extremely well, possibly has a job caring for others aswell i.e. nurse, basically goes beyond the call of duty every day and holds a very high moral compass and seems like Florence nightingale on steroids........... but behind it all is an extremely quick minded, clever liar and a cheat and extremely manipulative?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Have you ever met a woman that.....
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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Clearly you've not read many threads on this forum then.switch7 said:
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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Women in South Atlanta.
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We've all pretty much met women like the one you describe. You just have to look closely. They can't mask it forever, and it always comes out even if it is just momentarily.
One thing I've seen is a lot of nurses are some of the worst most phony acting people out there. They're working a job where they care for people, but in real life they're selfish, deceptive, and self absorbed: the complete opposite of what you'd expect them to be.
One thing I've seen is a lot of nurses are some of the worst most phony acting people out there. They're working a job where they care for people, but in real life they're selfish, deceptive, and self absorbed: the complete opposite of what you'd expect them to be.
..."Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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I know a few cops and firefighters.......very arrogant, the firefighters not so much....