Have you ever met a woman that is extremely charitable, is very caring, the perfect host when you are at their home, always extremely nice to everyone including strangers, goes out of their way for others on a daily basis, looks after and cares for her family extremely well, possibly has a job caring for others aswell i.e. nurse, basically goes beyond the call of duty every day and holds a very high moral compass and seems like Florence nightingale on steroids........... but behind it all is an extremely quick minded, clever liar and a cheat and extremely manipulative?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Have you ever met a woman that.....
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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Clearly you've not read many threads on this forum then.switch7 said:
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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Women in South Atlanta.
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We've all pretty much met women like the one you describe. You just have to look closely. They can't mask it forever, and it always comes out even if it is just momentarily.
One thing I've seen is a lot of nurses are some of the worst most phony acting people out there. They're working a job where they care for people, but in real life they're selfish, deceptive, and self absorbed: the complete opposite of what you'd expect them to be.
One thing I've seen is a lot of nurses are some of the worst most phony acting people out there. They're working a job where they care for people, but in real life they're selfish, deceptive, and self absorbed: the complete opposite of what you'd expect them to be.
..."So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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I know a few cops and firefighters.......very arrogant, the firefighters not so much....